@Bryonyshcmyony a long post on blood pressure...
2.5 stones heavier than I am now I had catastrophically high blood pressure, of the kind that they might hospitalise you for. And a family history of high blood pressure.
Fortunately, I responded well and quickly to medication and my bp dropped to 'very high' levels. All the advice that I was given was generic: stop smoking (I didn't smoke), eat more veg (I already ate loads), avoid salty foods...
I analysed the advice with a good friend who is also a nutritionist, and she said that it was great advice if your diet was made up of pizza, coke and ready meals, but it didn't fit my way of eating and living.
The combination of meds I was given brought my bp under control, however I'm a bit of a nature creature and I want to take as few artificial remedies as I can, so I researched and experimented to see what I could do to minimise my reliance on medication. I read everything I could find and worked out what felt pertinent to my own situation.
I started by following the extreme version of 'lower your blood pressure' advice: no salt, no sugar, no caffeine, no alcohol, no dairy. Meat in small quantities (so essentially a heap of veg with meat as a condiment). I lost weight, my bp dropped a few points. However it felt restrictive and a bit joyless, and not particularly sustainable for life (given that I'm a foodie who takes delight in visiting fabulous restaurants and cooking and eating well at home).
Then simultaneously I read a book by Ranjan Chaterjee, and read about low carb. Number one was 'find time for yourself'. If you can't reduce the constant level of stress then no diet, pills, exercise will ever really help. Number two: what you put into your body. Fewer unnatural ingredients, eat a rainbow of natural colours, less alcohol, minimal processed food. Number three was move around more. Doesn't have to be long distance running or some drastic shouty army bootcamp, just do a little more, and a little more and a little more - things you enjoy that make you feel good, gentle swimming or nice yoga, or tennis. Number four - the importance of sleep: good habits about not drinking late, or watching intrusive TV, or working till you drop...
I'd add in a fifth pillar which is about community - having family and friends who absolutely have your back and support you in what you are doing. If those who love and care for you can't allow and enable you to have time away from dc, work pressures, family responsibilities then they are not allowing you to take the essential first step. If your family will not listen when you say 'no sugar', if your partner sulks if you won't stay up till 1am watching nightmare movies...
Anyway, I discovered all of that alongside low carb high fat. It seemed counter intuitive (with regards to the traditional food messages we'd been given for years) but as a biochemist I could understand the metabolic benefits.
Long story short, and the combination brought my bp right down. However it was a hard journey on my own navigating information of the web, judging what might be right and what was down right cranky. Monitoring and measuring macros...
Finding bootcamp simplified all that for me. 10 rules. Not necessarily easy rules to follow, but simple and straightforward. A way of life and a way of eating that I can follow. I know when I go off plan, and I know what I have to do to correct it. I notice that when I'm off plan my bp rises and I need a little (very small) amount of medication. When I'm totally on plan my bp stabilises and I drop the meds. I also make sure that I add in to my diets those things known to be good for bp - hibiscus tea, some beetroot (even though it is higher in carbs).
And I don't reduce salt. Some of the high bp, so reduce salt advice comes from research where people ate a diet full of processed food (high in salt and sugar).
However, for me, the process started with reducing stress, the good eating came second to that.