@Dailyhandtowelwash that restaurant looks wonderful - I'd be there every day for a week! Have had some brilliant holidays in various Channel Islands and a return visit is high on our list.
@Oneborneverydecade I notice you wrote about having the occasional 'treat'. I wonder if our language (our society's language, not yours) around this is wrong somehow. It's a treat to have a spa day (well this in mumsnet so it's got to be mentioned
); it's a treat to have an extra half hour in bed with a cup of tea and a good book; it's a treat to buy yourself (or someone else) flowers, expensive soaps, a handbag; it's a treat to spend uninterrupted time with a great friend... Do we feel guilty about any of those? No. We enjoy them appreciate them, move on.
But we (and I think the food (junk) marketing industry) have somehow elevated certain foods / food groups to have 'treat' status, which I think increases their allure, increases our desire for them, sees them as a reward.
"reward yourself with a biscuit, go on, you deserve it" is the kind of message we are being fed.
Actually a potato is just a potato. It's not a treat (however it's cooked) it's just an energy source.
I think that the association of food (and of course alcohol) with treats and reward which is so implicit in our advertising culture is part of the reason why so many people struggle...
@MrsOmelette Mushrooms and celery... and which other veg?
Food today:
Brunch: coffee with cream; fried eggs, mushrooms, and a (disappointing) bit of black pudding
D - beef chilli (tomatoes, peppers, shallots) with avocado, sour cream, broccoli, fried courgette 'rice'