Let's talk about cheating!
I know it's only day 2
but this is something that everyone needs to understand.
Low carbing is not a forgiving way of eating. It's not like low calorie dieting, where you can compensate at one meal for 'bad behaviour' at another meal.
If you eat too much carbohydrate at any one point you risk weight gain. It's very simple. So people saying (or your own inner devil saying) 'just one xxx won't hurt' is something you have to be very careful of, and learn to ignore.
Bootcamp is designed to be easy to follow - no weighing or counting, and just 10 rules - but that doesn't mean it's an easy way to eat. And although it's only ten weeks long, that's quite a long time, and I know from my own experience that it's very easy to cheat.
Now. Sometimes it is genuinely unavoidable - we have and all will be in the situation where we're invited over to a friend's for a meal, and have no say over the food that's being cooked. Or you're at a work function and the only food options are sandwiches, or canapés, or other equally carb-laden things!
In those circumstances, sometimes you just have to accept that there's nothing you can do. In which case, go with the flow and just enjoy the moment. But then make sure that you get back on track immediately afterward, and be super-vigilant about your food and drink choices.
But there are also circumstances where you could influence the choices available to you, but it sometimes takes a bit more assertiveness. For example, going to a friend's for dinner. If they're really good friends, surely they will understand if you aren't eating something? After all, if you weren't eating bread because you were coeliac, they wouldn't serve you bread surely?
So in this situation, if at all possible, tell them what you're doing. It doesn't always mean that they have to cook a separate meal for you! You could also offer to take a cheeseboard for all the guests, to have as well as dessert, which means you can swerve the dessert.
If it's a works do, try to talk to the meeting/event organiser and ask if something else can be provided for you - they're very used to having to provide for people with allergies, so no reason why they shouldn't accommodate you as well.
I've heard a lot on Bootcamp people saying that they don't feel that their diet is as important as an allergy - and it's obviously true that it's not life-threatening! But that doesn't mean to say that YOU aren't important, so why shouldn't you say you're on a diet and you aren't eating carbs? (I know this one is tough, but honestly it's important that we all work on this)
Overall, though, the cheating that I see talked about on Bootcamp is very often nothing to do with anyone else, and it's all about the individual poster, 'giving in' to themselves - in other words, self-sabotage.
In which case, you need to ask yourself - was it worth it? When you next step on the scales and see no change, or even a gain, was that particular moment of indulgence really worth it?