my partner says he is leaving me and this time im not going to try and persuade him im sick of it all he doesnt help me around house, wont look for a job, and its all deemed to be my fault!! when he does leave which knowing him will be when it suits him not my son (from previous relationship so not his ds) but what can i do to make myself feel better and not wallow in self pity and crying all day. what do i need to do as a priority benefits?? anything else i should do?? other than buy chocolate and wine of course!!