Wasted/Wounded Help!!

[Mardulce]

I dont know about others on here, but new relationships are minefields!! Recently I have split up with the man of my dreams, I dont really know why, I have a 4 turning 5 year old and he was amazing with her. Better than the real dad. After a fairly swift and passionate start to our romance,I started to push him away and eventually out of our home to be honest I have no reason why. Just an irrational claustrophobia. He was amazing and would do anything for me and my daughter. He made me happy, he made her happy. I love him. What can I co?

If you love him and he was the man of your dreams why did you push him away?

Mayb it wasn't as irrational as you think. Perhaps you are just not ready for a relationhsip right now and when you are ready another man of youtr dreams will turn up.

I have no idea, I can explain my behaviour, I know you've heard this story prob a million times. I just want to know whats wrong with me!

Nothing's wrong with you, you are just not ready to trust anyone else yet, you are still hurting from your last break-up, and scarred by it, which is amking you more cautious this time round.

Scared of hurting him, scared of letting go, but why he is a very decent man!