Ex has our 2ds age 11 and 6 every 2nd weekend and 4 weeks of the year usually one week each in Easter/Xmas holidays and 2 weeks in the summer.
He casually mentioned last night that he is arranging for my oldest sons friend to come and stay for a week with them and then for my ds to go to this boys family for a week.
I am surprised he wants to send them away when it's his time with the boys for a start but I am not happy about my youngest being away for a week without one of his parents.
I have already booked a holiday whilst they are with their dad. So if I took him away with me he wouldnt get to see his dad at all which isn't fair on Ds 6.
what would you do?