Please or to access all these features

Add post

Watch this thread

Save thread

Start a new thread

Flip thread

Hide thread

My feed

Active Unanswered threads

Getting started FAQ's

Unanswered threads Acronyms Talk guidelines

Hide shortcut buttons

Talk

Lone parents

Use our Single Parent forum to speak to other parents raising a child alone.

Flip

Original poster

another rant about the f***ing CSA

15 replies

MascaraOHara · 29/07/2005 20:15

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHH, nope it hasn't helped.

Got home today to find a letter that says the tosser has to pay me nothing because as his weekly income is less than £5 FTW!!! never mmind the arrears. fckin cnt! bastard!! what do they think he's living off?!?!??!

Ane he still demands to see her every week!

I hate him.

I hate the CSA they have me over a barrel. tossers

OP posts:

Are your children’s vaccines up to date?

Set a reminder

Original poster

MascaraOHara · 29/07/2005 20:47

He had the nerve to say I don't deserve his moeny because I had a new kitchen last year..

OP posts:

rickman · 29/07/2005 20:52

Message withdrawn

spursmum · 29/07/2005 20:52

Tell me about it. My ba**d ex managed to convince he csa that he wasn't working even though he had bought himself a new car and had moved out of the family home!! Whats the fact that you had a new kitchen got to do with him providing for the child he created. Men are c**ts(scuze my language but this really makes me mad) Im in no way rational so i would deny him access but thats just me.
for you and all mums in the same situation.

Original poster

MascaraOHara · 29/07/2005 20:54

My dad is the most calm and rational person in the world and he said to me tonight that I should just remove him from our lives completely. This has been going on for 3 years and tonight I m distraught. I have xplored every avenue and nobody will help me!

OP posts:

Original poster

MascaraOHara · 29/07/2005 20:55

sorry that was supposed to read

My dad is the most calm and rational person in the world and he said to me tonight that I should just remove him from our lives completely but I haven't got the money to fight him in court

OP posts:

LittleStarsweeper · 29/07/2005 20:55

Calm down, calm down. Sister went through this crp for two years and just coming to the end of it now. I put her in touch with local MP who made contact with the Director the CSA to get their Ar* in gear. They soon jumped. If you know he earns more, then start finding some evidence and pass it on for the CSA to act upon it. One thing is for sure they find one door closed and they dont bother knocking on it to open.

Original poster

MascaraOHara · 29/07/2005 20:58

I have been to MP - twice.

OP posts:

LittleStarsweeper · 29/07/2005 20:59

do you know where he works and that he earns more than they say for sure? Did the MP not help you?

rickman · 29/07/2005 21:14

Message withdrawn

Original poster

MascaraOHara · 29/07/2005 21:26

they are useless, he has been running rings around them for 3 years. I think the women is scared of him so won't pursue it.

The MP did nothing except get me a few more fob-off phones calls. The next time they said I had to send all the paper work that I have as proof but I can't get the f*ckin CSA to send me anything so they won't do anything. I have been trying to get a payment schedule since April and now it's nt even valid they won't send me an old one.

OP posts:

rickman · 29/07/2005 21:39

Message withdrawn

Caligula · 29/07/2005 21:58

Mascara, stop communicating with them by phone. Put everything in writing and demand answers "by x date". Get the name of the person who is head of the section, if you get no joy from him/ her, get the name of his/ her boss, and up and up the chain. CC everybody you can think of - their boss, your MP, etc.

Original poster

MascaraOHara · 29/07/2005 22:10

I speak to the same women.

I was think of exercising my right under the data protection act to see all documentation with my name on it but I don't know who to go about it.

How do you find out the address, I only have the customer service address. I have tried to take legal action but I can't get a solicitor to help me - and can't afford one for that matter!

OP posts:

Caligula · 29/07/2005 22:45

On Monday, phone that woman and ask her for the complaints department address. The complaints department have to get back to you within a certain amount of time (I can't remember what it is - it may be 2 weeks, but I wouldn't swear to it.)

If the woman tries to put you off, tell her to write to you as you are no longer going to waste your time on the phone with her. They love it when you conduct everything on the phone, because then there's no evidence so they can put you on the backburner easier.

The complaints dept (in writing) is the first step. See what they come back with.

womba1 · 29/07/2005 22:53

Mascara... i can get you the names and numbers of the top people in the CSA from my Mum who works in a court. She isn't at work until Wednesday but i'll ask her then.
My dh has been on the recieving end of much shite from the CSA regarding his 2dc's from a previous marriage and a screwy ex, but after talking to a particular boss and threatening legal action, the situation has now been resolved.
Let me know if you want me to enquire for you,
Womba

Flip

Swipe left for the next trending thread