where have all the fit,interesting and available men gone PT20

[Betty79]

Has no one beat me to it with a new thread yet?

i think if deffo has a bearing belle. No way i would even wink at a bloke on datesites of i couldn't imagine wanting to shag him.

I meeting shop later, it needs to be done.

dd stil off sick, been gp today now she's on antibiotics, had to take a swab, it was pretty harrowing for her.

an yes belle, what pirate says

ach now he wants me to tell him about myself [not sure what face to put]

hi mrsm, did you get me 'k'

sorry it's not k try 'w'

looked at the guy's pics on zoosk and looks liek he has a bike ...

w near k? i am confused. hams?

north somerset

i am devon, so hopefully we are not dating same peeps!!!

lol now i remember, hopefully not

I rang in sick today, been in bed all morning. Not getting dressed today. Hate taking time off but feel much better.

Pirate, meet him and see what happens. Think I would be climbing the walls with no sex for years, but with the types I like to have sex with I should try it. I've made hay while the sun shines as I'm not getting any younger and if I leave it no-one will want to have sex with me .

What's the thread verdict on this. Go for it if someone takes your fancy even though long term might be out of the question, one can never tell these things, or shut ones legs and heal over, for ever???

Belle at least you know and are not left wondering for another few weeks.

Better get on I've got a date with daytime TV.

sorry to hear you are unwell eve. hope you get some rest today.

that's always been my bugbear, go have sex, or wait for someone you wanna have sex with only that. It depends on the man ans the situation i guess.

Very difficult to just arrange a casual thing via these online datesites, for me anyhow, as normally involves huge distances.

If i had more social life i would prob make hay tho, but i havent and my dd is alwyas here!!

it is possible to have and want sex with someone and enjoy it (hopefully) whilst not expecting to be with them forever

but whatever suits the individual really

i couldnt go that long tho pirate, we never couldnt even keep to the 2 week ban post op (wasnt even a week

we never couldnt even?!

you know what i mean lol

lo @ op ban, well i guess i wold have done the same in that situation.

I htink i am saying that for me, i couldn't do the big meet up for sex thing. mostly becuase it invloves, in my case huge arrangements and travel, as i live so remote.

had i had the oppotunity to do this with someone local i would have by now. I did actually inthe forst yr dh left, as dd was till seeing him and i got time out.

hope you feel better soon eve xx

i think i better reply to biker guy but don't know what to put

what are you replying to ?

the zoosk man

i meant, what did he say, in his message?

ah lol he said i could message him on fb had to be careful what i typed then my speeling bnot been that great today

'what do you do for fun ? tell me a little bit about yourself, if you dont mind... '

have never been good at talking baout myself so am not sure what to put arrrrrrrrgggggggghhhhhhh

mrsm - what did he send you?

belle - yes,... you have to be able to imagine doing the deed. if you cant imagine. then you wont be able to do it in rl iykwim.

eve - go make hay .. as long as its safe hay and everyone knows where they stand.

it is possible to have a casual relationship. but only if you dont set out looking for it. there's a few of the people i have met in past year. who set out to try as a serious relationship. but then it never worked out. and are now available for me to "scratch an itch".. if required. it's handy i must admit. i think once i finish things with motorola... i dont think i will be in a hurry to go back on any sites.

i feel what i have learned from motorola is perhaps i am not really looking for a proper relationship. well... more i dont have the time.

then again. might change my mind.

but what i'm trying to say is there's nothing wrong with something casual if it suits you both and your both respectful. my casual things for example.. i still expect to have dinner, etc.. it's not a fuck buddy situation where i just have sex and disappear. but a casual friend like this is good to save you from being reckless with your health and safety trying to find a way to scratch the itch. i'm not ready to close my legs and heal up never to have it again till i meet someone who's serious... but... i dont want to be a slut. nor do i ever enjoy or agree with picking up men in bars.

mrsm - what do you do for fun?.. just reply the truht

erm, not a lot of time tbh, when dd's in school, am more often than not on mn bored, not a lot of money etc

i do like 10pinbowling, badminton, reading, listening to music usual stuff gawd it soudns like that's what i shoudl've put!

Afternoon ladies

MrsM is that what you put?? the bit about bored, not a lot of money etc?