where have all the fit,interesting and available men gone PT20

[Betty79]

Has no one beat me to it with a new thread yet?

sm and dad2 - have you still not hooked up yet on chat/msn

belle - mmmm. personally from what you have told me. i would say leave marine to do the running.i'd advise dont ask him on date. let him ask you. but make sure to let him know when you have next dc free time when your having a convo at gym.

suppose i was thawing a little to forces. but then came to my senses in the early hours of them morning when i was revising and he'd been trying his damndest all day to get in good books and told him to back off as he wasn't being fair

I'm still waiting (woah oh uh ohhhhh)

sm - erm.. have known him for about 18 months ish but only really to talk to since xmas and more so since prob end of Jan ish, more so over the last 2 months or so.

Juicy - think that's the way forward as well - kid gloves are to be needed with him, but well tbh - he's the one where the biggest soft spot lays - even after meeting farmer etc. which again brings me to the point of how d'ya drop it into the convo about being boyless? - usually there's a group & lots of laughing. god i'm so crap at RL dating/talking etc. give me online any time of the day. he's getting a bit touchy feely thou - that's good right?

ref forces - he should back off and respect your choice there chick. have you heard from him today?

morning all
janos
what a shock for you and what a nasty piece of work she sounds,ping me on msn if you fancy a moan
lou glad to hear that you're back on the mend
kdk and betty all the best with tomorrow's dates!!
AND i have a few days away from this thread and look what happens....sm01 and d2c
looks like it's all going on up here in the midlands...!!

blimey this has sped along with an injection of testosterone

i slept like the dead last night, just about managed to get up for the school run and fell asleep again until about half an hour ago! i think the rushing about definitely caught up with me

or maybe it was my nod to exercising by being persuaded into getting these yesterday

it's about as much as i am prepared to do fitness wise

aside from that i have no news

boring now me

juice i think that forces is way out of order too esp after the shoddy way he behaved

nowt wrong with being boring lou
i think you and i are both quite content to have it this way nowadays

Where's sm gone? I'm kinda pining here

Dad2 - what's going on?? Messaged you, didn't you get it?

Belle - is marine through RL or site?

asbm, i even said out loud today that i was contemplating doing some ironing

i havent done it for about 7 yrs

No idea!? Received nothing - just send me a good old fashioned email to mark at mark hyphen wasley dot co dot uk x

Hi All,

Have been lurking on here for a while, can I join in?

Have just started dating again and am on GSM. I am a bit of a newby to this having been married for 10 years and got divorced last year. Have had a few dates but find it all a bit stressful TBH as no idea what the 'rules' of dating are anymore!

Met nice bloke last week who seemed keen and said he wanted to go out again and would be in touch but heard nothing, at what point do you all just give up and move on??!!

Scrub that, just found it in my junk mail (don't take it personally x)

hi elasta

i dont think there are any rules really aside from only do what you feel comfortable with

wrt this guy, is it worth contacting him or are you not that fussed?

lol lou am imagining you in your cath kidston pinny now
hi elastamum!tbh if you've heard nothing by tonight i'd just move onto the next one..never accept last min dates imho..men need to know that elastamum has a life!!

Welcome elastamum - what is GSM? This dating thing is bloody hard isn't it!

When did you see your nice bloke?

this is more me

(actually i am wondering if i should get it lol)

yep!!
meant to ask you,did bf manage to get hold of rod stewart tickets for you?
dp failed miserably with stereophonics tickets

elastamum... anymore than 3 days without contact i'd move on too. unless he reappears with a genuine excuse and promise of wineing and dining for his bfs(broken finger syndrome)

lou ironing ... i hate it. but has to be done.

belle - no haven't heard from him today, but he went "bush" early hours of this morning .. that'll make sense to you. so not he'll struggle for phone for a few days minimum.

asbm - yes. shoddy. but the other not so shoddy behaviour he has shown previous, kind of causes me to be

juicy but where does this leave motorola?

ninah do you still have the same email addie?

haha asbm, funnily enough he was reminded of that the other day, when he finally admitted he doesnt actually like the bloke, just thought it would make me like him more by offering

just as well it worked and he has other talents aside from ticket buying eh lol

Hi All thanks for the advice. Am on Gaurdian website. He is very nice but also out of the country a lot on business. We have been chatting on and off for about 3-4 weeks and finally managed to meet on Sunday when we found a day we were both around and I didnt have the kids in tow - I have also been away quite a bit. He did send me a nice follow up text, saying he wanted to meet again, but I do think if he really means it he would act on it. He hasnt got any kids and I wonder if he is looking for someone a bit more unattached than me. I know he isnt out of the country this week as no planes! what do you think?

did you reply to him when he said he would like to see you again?
maybe he is waiting for you to say ok so he or you can say when?

No, he said he would be in touch to arrange to meet again but I havent heard from him so I havent replied