HI ALL god where do i start...well had the baby as u know..n called him judge...hopefully he can send his dad down in yrs 2 com hahahaha..on a serious note...things are bad again n im not sure what 2 do!! didnt get my move out so that really upset me!! long story!!..anyway the after ds was born bumwipe asked 2 c him n yes like a mug i took baby round 2 him...there was tears all round i got a massive apology from him which i didnt xpect...i jus said it isnt bout u n me anymore its about judge...well judge is 5 wks this wk..n this is the story so far...bumwipe gives me days n times when he coming 2 c judge then doesnt show ...also doesnt tell me he isnt coming so im left sitting waiting like a lemon...he has done this 11 times so far im counting!!says he is going 2 buy him something then doesnt,says he be here at 8 then turns up at 11 pm....i told him look if ur not prepared 2b a dad 2 him there r others who would step up 2 ur place...he ignores any txts i send concerning the situation n doesnt answer the fone wen i ring thats cause he knows hes wrong...ive told him i cant take much more of this this...ive now said he cant see judge anymore...but i feel guilty...but he has put me through so much...plz read my last thread 2 those who dont no my situation any advice any1 xxx