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where have all the fit, interesting and available men gone (part 18)

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DONTtouchMUMSspecialJUICE · 24/02/2010 18:01

part 18.... jeeze 17 threads have past...17 threads worth of dating excitment/disasters.

wonder what number 18 will bring

any predictions anyone?

wedding/co-habitation for someone must be due by now.

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thesouthsbelle · 05/03/2010 21:37

god I ACHE!!! and am soooooo tired. marine wasn't there today. but will be monday (YAY!) so fingers crossed mum will go back to sitting for me for the boy. have been missing seeing his smiling face (and tight butt lol) Did see gymboy thou. not sure if he saw me or not, he was gone byt the time I got out, didn't talk to each other.

Juicy - I stand in the middle roughly - well half front half middle. he walks around if the other guys are doing it as well, and screams in your face lol. otherwise he stands at the front and shuffles back & forth looking v hot n sweaty n fit. (nice! lol)

ahy who has dates this week and who doesn't?

anyhow off to catch up properly.

aseriouslyblondemoment · 05/03/2010 21:47

lol @ belle and his tight butt
keep focused on that lady or will be wearing my stern face....!!
actually come to mention it how on earth do you ever get anything done down the gym?
i think i'd be too distracted

Betty79 · 05/03/2010 21:47

scl-i like spicy but lime pickle.... lol

belle-well that's dedication on a fir night i must say, shame u didnt get to see those tight buns!

well my bottle of vino is almost empty and have got the muchies, have told thetrucker will go for something to eat next week and will let him know when i can get sitter. no point texting her, have seen on fb she's in pub tonight lol

thesouthsbelle · 05/03/2010 21:49

monty - no marine isn't attached - but there's no hope there - i'm shite at RL talking & asking out, plus already had a brush off via email as confirmed with our juicy so i'll stick to ogling. lol. (althou a work college knows him from his work - her husband & him so ho hum) are you on my FB? can't recall who i've added and who i've not - but he's the one with a name that sounds like a sweet.

sin - why did I think you were loved up?

ok am missing something now who's loved up, who's dating & who's not?

betty - good luck with the trucker.

ninah- where are you off shopping to?

cain - glad you came back - althou after moldies lol. (still never got that?!)

juicy - hotel - honestly how much sight seeing do you plan to do?!? lol.

hate - sorry you're having a bad time in work.

i'm not on the malibu tonight, maybe tomorrow. ewww to bailies thou. lol.

have put another 2lb on this week not good not good at all. 6 weeks till brother's wedding - must loose it again lol.

thesouthsbelle · 05/03/2010 21:52

it's on 6 while 7 so the idea is you do combat and then go out on the razz - it's the same crowd all the time mostly who socialise together as well my aunt/uncle do with them but I don't as much.

eww to the lime chutney thou - i'm more of a korma and chinese type of a girl lol.

pinksmarties · 05/03/2010 22:21

Hi all, I'm lurking but too tired to post.
Trying to stop eyeing up dds huge unopened box of LINDOR chocs. I love them sooo much, ahhh that melt in the mouth loveliness.

Got to get away from them so going to bed.

Where's Kdk gone ??

Are we still trying to meet up next week ? Please lets try,

Have lovely weekends everyone x

sincitylover · 05/03/2010 22:24

sorry I know its gross - have stopped eating it now - just on the vino now.

No not loved up belle - have a couple of FWBs but no big love interest. I am actually quite resistant to a proper relationship - too worried it will go badly wrong tbh!

Betty79 · 05/03/2010 22:43

Ha ha i forgot I had a message on pof from some minger last week saying he wasnt really bothered with actual dating, wouldnt mind fwb....erm no thanks and all!

Monty100 · 05/03/2010 22:45

I lurve lime pickle and poppadoms. But I don't eat the lime bit, just the pickle. lol

Have had Indian tonight as I do every Friday. I'm beginning to feel very dull. Dull as dishwater in fact. Too tired to do anything as well.

Blardy Guitarman just caught me on MSN AGAIN! He's befriended my exh. Grrrr.

thesouthsbelle · 05/03/2010 22:53

ok girls aside from the charmers on POF what other free sites are there out there at the mo?

betty - sounds like a keeper that one

aseriouslyblondemoment · 05/03/2010 22:55

lol
i lurve the poppadoms bit but not that part it's too leathery for me lol
msn is a hazard monty, best to do the remaining off line then messaging who you like!

aseriouslyblondemoment · 05/03/2010 22:59

i'm liking the sound of the trucker too tbh,think betty needs to give us more info

sincitylover · 05/03/2010 23:05

sorry realise what I posted about fwbs sounded a bit low rent LOL

I think if I was hoping to have more dcs or was alot younger I would def be looking for a proper relationship - its hard to explain it really.

But I have become so cynical and old I just can't see how it could work with me, dcs and my domestic set up and lifestylee.

I do take heart from Lou's situation though. If a really really exceptional man comes along then I would of course go for it.

But in the meantime not too keen on letting anyone in close.

sincitylover · 05/03/2010 23:07

wouldn't go seeking FWBs either - they just sort of happened.

Suppose I am saying I can't be arsed to seek anything - my energy levels are not what they were

Remotew · 05/03/2010 23:15

SCL you and me both!

sincitylover · 05/03/2010 23:21

was hoping you would be along eve

Betty79 · 05/03/2010 23:25

scl-dont think there is anything wrong with fwb if that's what u want, personally im not too good in not getting feelings for someone im sleeping with.

i just post about that pof bloke cos it was funny cos he was a minger....and erm yeah as if I'd be jumping at the chance lol!

and dont worry wasnt the trucker that sent me that message, anyway in response to u asbm trucker is same age as me(30), never married but has 8 year old dd, seems to be very hands on dad, see's her few imes a week and on saturdays. Seems nice so far but then dont they all to start with lol...

sincitylover · 05/03/2010 23:29

I know - one I do have feelings for but the other think its the other way round. Hmm that's life eh!

thesouthsbelle · 05/03/2010 23:31

see fwb would be ok if it was totally one offs. otherwise I get involved then again no head messing done?!? hmm...

have joined this here smooch - what is it with married men on there - is it cos it's free so the wife won't see & what makes them think we'd be interested after knowing they're married?!?

thesouthsbelle · 05/03/2010 23:35

you have more than one sin?

Betty79 · 05/03/2010 23:37

belle-are they blatantly stating they are married? I find smooch quite funny!

RedBlueRed · 05/03/2010 23:45

Gah! Been watching tv and drinking wine. Lady Gaga was on Johnathon Ross and I find her a very interesting character.

So what does fwb stand for? I'm guessing along the lines of f*ckbuddy???

Betty79 · 05/03/2010 23:49

friends with benefits

RedBlueRed · 05/03/2010 23:50

Ha Haaaaaaaaaaaaaa Like it.

thesouthsbelle · 05/03/2010 23:51

no i've been asking lol.

am now talking to a squaddie who is providing some giggles. < god it's so bad my forces addiction.> ;o

Lady gaga is fantastic but a little odd - did she have a mask on?

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