where have all the fit, interesting and available men gone (part 18)

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part 18.... jeeze 17 threads have past...17 threads worth of dating excitment/disasters.

wonder what number 18 will bring

any predictions anyone?

wedding/co-habitation for someone must be due by now.

x post there lol
ikwym!!
there's just nothing to analyse with him tbh and if you look back on the thread late last spring time you'll see that he never made me analyse as such except for me not believing that he could be so uncomplicated and genuine as after all i never dated uncomplicated men before did i?
you really don't sound sure about yours at all..

the black ash can go ninah you know that
but are you saying that you're embarrassed by his appearance?
surely his hair can't be that bad?

I know, and also asbm you seem like someone that can DO relationships
The trouble here is prob not nm, I do love him as much as I can, not as ott as with ex but in a sane kind of way .. but with me being quite mercurial
he's patient, I'll give him that
but a good friend who's known me for years said nice enough bloke but i wonder if he'll hold your interest
because I'm quite flighty I need someone solid and reliable, but then I get bored

ninah - your using the "i dont like his hair" thing you all did at me for

what wrong with his hair??? are we talking 3 strand combed over?

and surely after all this time he has other qualities redeem lack of bounce carpet?

ninah - do you think you would stray if the oppotunity arose?

OMG, I've just read through CC's thread about the 'get what you pay for'. Was wanting to give her some support but didn't get chance to as I didn't have control of the laptop. It turned really nasty and the thread was pulled.

She isn't a troll is she?

can you see some way of putting some oomph back into the relationship?
it sounds to me that maybe he's kind of stuck in his ways a touch...but the fact that he's finally getting paperwork sorted speaks volumes doesn't it?

I have decided I hate posting from my phone. It takes bloody forever

hi all. have just got backed from having me ears lowered! wavering on the SOH's thing with GB. .

anyhow, what are we on about - sofas? I need a new one. but right now it's just set for one.

CC, just read that you mentioned this earlier, sorry I couldn't step in but it took me ages to snatch a read and then it was pulled.

Makes me realise why I tend to stick around here. Lots of nastiness when you venture out and certain posters make my blood boil. You know who I mean. They think they own the bloody site.

rofl @ juicy
eve not quite sure what's been happening there but i think a few complained to MNHQ
see that the other thread on there is still going strong but the OP bf isn't posting today

I have decided I hate posting from my phone. It takes bloody forever

what one blondie?

eve - I jsut hate the way that some posters think as they post on that section they 'own' it as it were - i meant we all post here - does that mean we're mean to everyone else who comes on 'our' thread/boards??

Abouteve - my sentiments exactly. Some people think they own the place. grrr

I did say to cc at one point come back to the 'fit' thread, which she did briefly. But only really to say she's off. So I'm flummoxed (sp).

Juice I was trying to get you on fb at the time for a chat.

ASBM I opened my old msn too to chat to you and this bloke who lives round the corner and was besotted and probably still is, is now chatting to me. OMFG!!! He now hangs around with my exh!! I'm running for the hills I am. Guitarman, that's what I called him, do you remember?? OMFG again!

Will be back.

I'm flumoxed (sp) too. We had seen a photo of this guy and I believed CC in everything she said. She had given this guy what she thought he wanted, then felt down reading his twitter, and realised that something so wrong had happened. Then asked for advice. I hope she is feeling OK now. Sorry if you don't want to discuss it on here but it has really brought back a bad memory for me.

Also a friend came round to see me tonight and told me about someone I know of who has just been accused of a sex crime. My gut reaction was that he was probably guilty and DD heard me and protested. This has really affected me tonight.

JESUS
belle it's the one about the woman who was pd off that her dp/df hadn't told an ex that they were engaged and that said ex was still apparently pestering him after 15months

not looked blondie tbh - will go check it out, althou am currently having a date with mcdreamy and mcsteamy.

eve - are you ok over there? is there anything you want to get off your chest - we're here you know that.

oh eve
unfortunately that's the prob.with some of these threads
i did find cc's thread v.disturbing tbh and wasn't surprised that it was pulled
i never saw the bloke's pic btw
can't remember which site she met him on

oooh belle lol

ah if only - certainly wouldn't kick either out of bed. can't find it thou - has the tread been pulled as well?

Hiya everyone, I've just been reading a fairly horrible thread about rough sex and then some and someone posted about how you have to be careful these days so have come over for the low down from some experts. Been thinking about venturing down that road again but it sounds scary! I hope she is ok.

I did actually post on this site ages ago about a man I was texting...he was full on then ignored me all weekend only to reappear on the monday saying that he had lost his phone in the garage. I know, I didn't believe him either. I haven't been back since!

So what do I look out for? Is POF still a decent site or is it all firemen and webcams?

Belle, I'm OK just disturbed about CC's thread. Brought back memories of a night I would rather forget. I wasn't harmed at all, god no-one would dare try that, but I did have very good grounds for reporting a sexual assault but had to consider how it would reflect on me in court so never persued it. Makes me to think that men can get away with rape and physical assault (as CC's thread was really about) because women are worried that they could be perceived to be 'asking for it'.

I read the thread with BigMac, I just wanted to reach out and throttle him through the laptop.

At least most of us on this thread know we are real people via email, fb. lol

quite, one big happy family.

it's sad thou I think and thank god i've never had the first hand exp, but it is sad a woman's integrity is challenged etc when something of that nature occurs.

cain - hiya, yep think that sums POF up tbh. lol.

and on that note i'm off to bed - DS is at mums - it's weird being in the house without him & without GB around/at his. anyhow ho hum night all.

ohh eve i pmsl @ that thread
what a nobber eh?