pirate - hi, welcome... right... you dont need to wait on this guy emailing you... he's already made first move with a wink. if he's shy he wont message until receiving a wink/message back... get one of others on here to mail him with you pof id or just your email.
since he's already winked this would be fine.
sparky - there's no harm in geting back online even just for a perve something to keep you busy at those times when your feeling abit down over next few days/weeks and avoid temptation of getting abck with your ex.
also sparky - the absolute most i would do is about 45 mins drive. and only if they would drive their fair share of times to my area. and tbh... i will only contemplate a non drive if they are pro-active at public transport and stay within 15 mins drive if i'm going to be one doing most of driving.
but to be honest i really am put off if they dont drive.
as for facebook and msn... i've dont give anyone my facebook. it's for my friends. it has embarassing photo's.. i talk very crude on it about crude things with my vulgar and childish friends....when a guy asks for it.. i tell them very clearly that i dont like them having it when they can read my status its as personal as reading private texts. no one has ever complained.
if i do for some odd reason add someone.. if i dont meet them, or change my mind. i do delete them.. not because i'm being mean. just because there's no need for them to see details of my life.
msn - i now try and avoid this like the plague.. if i do decide to msn someone. i usually explain i dont like it and delete them off after a few days. i cant stand all that will they/will they thing of seeing each other online.
dating is already difficult enough in wondering whether or not they will text/call.
if you also need to worry about whether or not they fb/msn/email.... my head would be mush.
hatesponge - nothing wrong with someone without dc. i actually find them easier. as they are free at wkds when i am... and they can come over in evenings when my dc are tucked up and hate a late dinner and watch dvd. they are much easier to fit around your life.
wg - yeah.. he's said he's handsome. but if he's meeting you hes emailing you he must think your up to his standards.
does no harm to meet up and se if he's vain or down to earth and its all bravado for the site.. you wont know... you could be shooting yourself in the foot by not meeting him... at least you wouldn't be embarassed he was a munter on your date