re house and car?
do you mean living on his own? or owning.
i dont have a problem with someone who rents rather than having bought.
i dont mind if they have lost a home due to a split and moved in with friends/family as long as its temporary and they have intention of getting their own place once they get back on their feet financially iykwim.
i do have an issue if they move back in with parents... and have no intention of moving back out unless its in with a woman to look after them and do the housework
house share... particularly if its in an area where property is very expensive..... this i actually think is good thing. shows they aren't stupid with cash and willing to compromise.
lets face it.. everyone would rather have a choice of their own pad. but if its not financially viable , it's a good compromise to share a let or even a mortgage these days with a friend.
as for the car...hmmm.... i've said before i'm not keen if they dont have a car unless they are very willing with public transport. i dont mind doing the running about. but they need to make some effort. not a blooming taxi for them.
and.... i'm not saying the car has to be high end, or new,
but got to be looked after. not one of those when you get in and cant see the back seat for junk food wrappers and shite.
but... suppose i would prefer a newer car too if given a choice. dont really want to be going about in a banger no matter how clean.