someone give me a slap!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[benbon]

ok so my husband walk out in july last year. was a real shock, didnt see it coming atall...

somedays i think im over him and that im moving on.. other days i feel like i still love him ( was with him since i was 16, now 25)

well i have just found out he is seeing someone new. has been since nov-dec and i feel like my heart has broken again..

i feel so cross that he is able to move on so quickly when i cant move on as he very rarely has the kids so i dont have a chance to get out...

My friend has a theory that blokes rarely move out of one relationship until they've got a new one lined up. (And they say I'm the cynical one). It's going to take time to move on and if he walked out, he'd already begun to move on before he moved out, so to speak. Mine walked out after 17 years, was pretty horrid during the marriage and is now behaving like a complete twit and I still occasionally think I'd like him back.
Apparently this is quite normal.
Keep going, I'm told it can only get better.