men arghhh

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Phoenix4725 · 10/01/2010 19:48

Am not even going to name change for this one am mad and steamed

i have a x that sees the kids occasional and so far becaus eof his friends and their circle of friends i had to involve the police 4 times now take out injuctions against people hes fallen out with .

Then tonight top it of had window smasheds and commenst hurled at me , not till phoned ex he mentioned he is in court as witness against couple of the gangs members this week police now involved due to intimdation and warned me might well peak next few days

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Phoenix4725 · 10/01/2010 20:12

so in light of all the trouble do you think im am being unresonable from baning him from seeing the kids to this is all settled

oh one of gangmembers he is in court against well i could spit into their backgarden

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chubbasmum · 10/01/2010 20:50

Thats a situation no-one deserves to be in its very unfair on you and the kids i would actually go to CAB and get some advice on that one, is there anywhere you can go to for a few days it sounds like running away but its for you and the kids safety,when he gets involved with these people doesnt he think of the danger he is putting you and his kids in goodluck hun

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Phoenix4725 · 10/01/2010 21:00

no sadly there is nowhere can really go have had count up of money see if could find carvan for week but moths in my purse

nope sadly he does not think , am planning on moving anyway as can not handle any more never used to have any problems we split he moved to his mum but then moved back here lived with a 16 hyear old girl a while left area then came back again of last time my kids were spat at and verbally abused in the street by one of his so called friends

truth i just want to cry , i thought had life so right i escaped one violent realtionship by moving with my toddler son and 8 months pregannat half away across the country , got married 2 more kids that failed and made life for me and my kids and now i got to move again just feel like been kicked

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chubbasmum · 10/01/2010 21:34

I hope you will be okay with the kids i think its a good idea moving away to start afresh goodluck and i mean it from the bottom of my heart xx

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Phoenix4725 · 11/01/2010 20:05

well did it moved need go back for stuff once sorted storgae but am camping out at mums in spare room and lounge floor till see if council here can help

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chubbasmum · 12/01/2010 21:24

glad to hear you and the kids are in a safe place that i did think of you yesterday xx

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