Where are all the fit,interesting and available men Pt.15

[aseriouslyblondemoment]

jesus it's still running lol...

yeah it's awful, have rung boss he's not too happy - but the cough is making ds sick. i'd have asked dad to have him for the morning but he's at a funeral today so no good there.

tbh sounds like he's fishing.

well ive still sent dd2 to school, given her some calpol and cough medicine, she seems ok just full of it.

did u mean footiebloke fishing? was a bit strange for him to message me out of the blue, think i last heard from him end of oct some time!

belle i just think his behaviour is odd that's all
esp.when you've never met!
betty they're like buses lol tho i'm imagining that footiefella is chancing his luck

thats my thoughts on the footie fella.

well we're currently on the first watch of chicken run - wonder if thats a good idea as it's chicken stew for tea! lol. the boy has been sick again, but is only as he's coughing so much - did wonder if calpol & tixilix would still mean nursery was an option?

yeah ur prob right about footiebloke well his loss for dissapearing last time lol

well ive been and done my weekly shop, gonna try and go swimming in a bit but really cant be bothered.

belle-lol at chicken run/chicken stew! poor ds tho I wudnt have sent my dd if she had been sick with it, she was just snotty and coughing in the night but seemed ok. and anyway school are quite quick to send them home if they are ill, so im sure i will hear from them if she is.

i heard back from my exh

omg he is something else

on a nicer note, i am getting free tickets for the panto for myself and the kids it seems

ooh that's something anyhow
who's in it?

gethin jones

my exh is spectacularly self blinkered

he even ended the email by typing to me in red like he was telling me off!

rofl @ the red typos
bet he was seething as he was typing it too

my god typing in red! what a nob!

here is a snippet of his hilarious reply

"In terms of taking not giving, that is a massive insult a good 30-35% of my weekly food budget goes on things for them which I don't need but they might like, I thought the 50p it costs to get them here might be forgotten verses the £30+ it must cost to ferry your friends or go to kent, If you can't see that I am sorry
you have obviously forgot the years I ferried you around including six months after we split, but if it is a massive cost to get them here then get a quote."

lololololol

he has obviously forgotten that a a family one tends to drive the others about especially if they are the only driver, and using a car supplied by MY family

he sounds like my ex gets when he knows he's in the wrong, he's trying to convince himself that he is right!

yep all the classic signs of exh syndrome

oh now he is really cross with me, i mean really not happy

Today i' m having a weak and sweaty day but think I'm on the mend. I just did a bit of tidying and sweeping and I feel wasted!

Sorry to hear some of your dcs are ill - my ds2 is also off today but think he's not too bad - bit of a stuffy nose - think he just wanted to be home with me!!

Well Mr Yorke can be as keen as he likes bottom line is I have no child free time till after Xmas so the most we can do sis meet for coffee/quick drink. Ido find it slight unnerving because by doing this the overriding sense is of his communicating rather than showing his personality IYKWIM and it makes me complacent as well.

lou @ex driving views

scl - if he's keen he'll be more than happy with quick coffee/drink.

sorry to hear you are all feeling under the weather. we're finally rallying. but dd is trying to milk it.. she was in my bed one night her fever was particularly bad... and now she's taken to winding her brother up by telling him "i'm sleeping in mummy's bed because i'm not well"

so... bluebell....he's asked to join me on an xmas shopping expedition tomorrow when i finally have babysitter(dc dad away still). i'm completely wrong footed here... got my cynical hat on here... think i borrowed it off asbm. tomorrow will be 3rd date.. and nothing more than a peck has occured. never mind me taking it slow... think i've turned into a snail .

and...... we're doing xmas day on boxing day(dc dad taking dc on xmas eve/day). and i've got half my family coming round(huge family, half is a houseful)... and i've invited irish to come spend it with us rather than spend it on his own.

so
a) am i barking in throwing him in with my family and he's now just a friend.

b)do i need to get him a gift now?

juicy-lol at going at snail's pace as for irish hmmm not sure about spending xmas together depends if u both really are happy just being friends, as for gift i prob would get him something small, or maybe ask him if u should get each other something. I would prob make a joke of it and see what he says?

if it feels ok having him there juice then do it, but if you do i would get him a token gift

exh got worse, i am not going to reply now, apparently i am threatening him with the csa and told bailiffs where he lived

not sure how i would know what debt he had or who to tell but there you go

re bluebell - erm I didn't snog gymboy until the third date remember - was only a peck on the cheek until then at the end of the night as well - so twice. lol.

re irish - ah what the heck go with it buy him one if everyone's opening pressies as well.

lou - can't believe the cheek of him!

currently have XMIL moaning on about BIL who's been sleeping about behind SIL's back & has walked out on her leaving DN who is 10 months old. wouldn't mind so much but XH did the exact same thing and she's all over SIL, apparently I had to put up n shut up, and XH was fantastic where as BIL is an idiot. (and we were married - double standards anyone?!)

belle xmil sounds like a pita. at least your at arms length now.

interesting about the length of time it took with gymboy and things are still pretty hot between you... well lets see what happens.. i'm still wearing cynic hat.

re gift - i seen some fab boxers the other day called "bawbags"... novelty design. with bananas and guns on them kitsch but fun. i dont think he'll be staying over on xmas night to be here for the present opening. but perhaps just incase he catches me on the hop at some point over the festivities i better have a reserve gift... i'm thinking the boxers are good as my bro is same size and i can give them to him if irish doesn't give me a gift.. then its now wasted money.

what do ya think?

my family already know we're friends.. and make faces about it.. my mum wont be there though. just my bro/sis which would understand.

pretty hot!?! lol. is that what u call it. hahaha. no it is really, in it's own way - could do with a damn good shag at times thou instead of just messing about, but it's the whole no condoms/ he gets 'carried away' apparently. still don't mean we can't have fun thou

yeah sounds good to me tbh - i've got gymboy some aftershave so if it goes pear shaped the pressie can be diverted to my brother as well.

are you saying he refuses to use condoms?

no no, he wears them, just never has any, I have them here, he's not keen on em thou - bit tough really init!

men never like them do they lol

he uses them but just never has any, thats am old one

i just got this charming reply from my exh , after saying in the new year i will get the csa to sort out a regular financial arrangement to save arguing, and he can come to me with a plan of repaying the money he has now admitted to taking from me

" thank you for once again shitting on my life

I hope you are happy

you are the most vindictive person I have ever had the misfortune to know
good luck "