sponge - i'd just delete him. sounds like too much work. but i'd tell him i were deleting him first and he knows your email if he changes his mind in feb.
lou - birthday sounds good.
well... had a blooming awful day.
told beachbum it was over for good. decided it was just too much fucking around (literally)
which was . but had to do it as it was never going to be a goer was it.
then.... went to pick up kids and found his NW playing with kids. i wasn't prewarned at all. think i was in complete shock. there's a 25yr age gap between me and exp... and his nw looks younger . she's possibly thai/chinese... so she may be older but just looks younger.... but... jeeze a warning would have been nice.
text irish. and told him... obviously wrong thing to do as he hasn't replied. heard from his this morning. he is better and out and about.. so possibly just out with his friends and will get back to me when he's not in earshot of them.... but i dont think so... think i shouldn't have told him. another thing that is a struggle for him is when my exp is being arsey... he's aware if he's with me then he needs to put up with exp being arsey and upsetting me. so i try not to tell him when he is annoying me... but there's been the odd occasion where i've been with irish and exp has gone off on one with calling repeatedly (36 missed calls one day) or shouting down phone.... i've just reminded irish again of another complication of being involved with me.... pschotic ex who likes to cause grief with my life... irish likes things simple.
lets face it ladies... we're hugely put off by guys with pscho ex gf aren't way... and men are put off by our pschotic ex's too.
so... we'll see IF or WHAT he responds with.