Where are all the fit,interesting and available men Pt.15

[aseriouslyblondemoment]

jesus it's still running lol...

Lou - good answer.

i honestly would too lol

(you can send them to me if you are worried about them being addictive....)

I haven't got them lou! They are my mum's - she took pity on me. She's been taking them for about 6 months on and off and she was all 'pah! well if they're addictive I wouldn't have stopped taking them for the last two weeks then would I?'

Your answer is brilliant - I should have said that rather than not replied. And he's texted again this evening and I haven't replied again. Oh dear - I think I need to say something

spice - how many texts has he sent that you haven't replied to? is it greater than 2 yet? has he not got the hint?

monty - he sang that song after we'd split up and supposdly just friends too!

and we'd get married in vegas!

this has already been discussed waaaaay back on first date. followed by gretna green as 2nd option when i explained the history behind gretna green and eloping when we drove past he liked that

.... monty!!! behave... we're not even dating, never mind getting married. now stop looking at hats. you will be very disappointed when you need a refund

No, only two. But I wouldn't be surprised if he emailed or called my landline just to check there isn't a problem with my phone

MORNING!!!! ding dong who's at home today - you've all been busy yesterday.

anyhow, went shopping y'day, managed to get a lot of stuff done had lay in, saw gymboy on fri night didn't get around to doing his shelves lol. but then got the arse when I was rudely kicked out of his flat at midnight. still ho hum. sorted it out, went to a hockey game with him last night n was introduced as his GF we've not even had that chat yet but had a bit of a falling out as were meant to be spending this am together, so was disappointed when he said he couldn't as had to do a x country run in surry - but understand why, esp as he'd said no yest am, but then won a place in the london marathon n when they asked again after he couldn't really say no (is with the running club). so was upset but think he's coming over tonight anyhow, or tomorrow. girlfriend, oh and his family also know about me n the situation as well all is good.

now for the question do I still meet up with the sailor or not next weekend - he's home tomorrow and we were going to go for a coffee - but would have to wait until next sunday as busy until then. (gymboy will be in holland then btw for a few days seeing his friend)

off to catch up now....

Morning ladies, had a good night with mrjack almost managed to watch all of the dvd

Juice-lol at u and irish, def sounds like he is smitten

spice-I think that would worry me, my firt thought was not about him being controlling but more that he knew about the painkillers, wud ring alarm bells with me. So are you going to reply or just ignore him?

lou-how are u feeling today?

Monty-lol at the shots last night, and ur kittens are pretty smart lol mine's going to a new home on monday by choice tho, never intended to keep it and my cat is def off to the vets soon to be neutered!

hi belle u just posted before me,so gymboy finally seems to have stepped up to the mark, glad all is going well not sure about the coffee with the sailor, wud he be hoping it was the first of many? or is it just as friends?

I don't know whether he googled them or if he is an expert on painkillers. Either way it's a bit odd Thanks for reassuring me that my instincts aren't way off beam

i am in surrey belle, where is he i will go say hi

im ok thanks, still a bit snotty and still coughing, but not so badly now

i have nothing really to report

i am still half asleep and still in my au naturel roadkill state

betty - at the mo I think he's thinking just friends - he's also going thru a divorce/separation so I'm reluctant to go there anyhow romantically at the minute even without gymboy in the picture - I see him as a friend and no more. he knows about gymboy.

spice - trust the instincts, we like that on this thread, and if they're confused then we'll all tell you what to do lol. he may well be genuine and showing concern, but then again I think it would still be a safe bet to pull back form him & see how he reacts. have you had anymore texts etc today? fwiw some men don't take the hint after ignoring 2 texts.

Betty - you go girl with Mr Jack!

Lou - get some more tests done chick,. or is that what the radiology thing is all about? fingers crossed it's nothing 'serious' thou i'm sure it's not. gotta say it again X is a real knobcheese thinking he can pick one of your 4 kids to see - twat. hairy legs n body suit! LMAO! better get n sort mine out actually. lol. oh n batman - when's he over, we do like batman don't we and it helps he's totally hot!

eve - the prob is you see, bad boys are more fun.

blondie - glad you have your festive sorted out.

Juicy - awww you n irish are so gonna be on again I think, but understand where you're coming from re the friends thing. try thinking of him as a gaybest friend type? only way I manage not to jump my GBF (who's not gay btw) but only way we don't jump each other's bones all the time is that. also agree with monty re boxing day. i'm thinking boxers n lynx n a cheque book of sexual favours! haha.

monty - how's things with al?

hope i've not missed anyone out - only managed to catch up with y'day's news.

better go n get in the shower n think about picking DS up - roll on friday when XH is back down again with him. (still can't stop grinning, am a happy bunny today)

road kill. lol. no Idea Lou - somewhere where they'd do x country - you can't miss him thou as he's wearing a bright yellow running vest. and the bald patch is getting bigger at theback of his head - I keep ofering t put boot polish on it to cover it up but apparently that's not a good idea and me being cheeky.

surrey is quite big you know

its just the remnants of my flu, it can take a few weeks

i also have a sore arm from having the swine flu jab on thurs night

yes batman is hot

oh i forgot, i was chatting to a really nice normal sounding guy last night, who asked if we could meet this evening but said no cos amongst other things sunday is about getting everything sorted for the school run again

i would have met him for a coffee this afternoon but he has some private work on (mechanic)

im not feeling any urge to hurl myself into anything atm anyway

just a quick Q for u ladies, I've been invited to my friend's for new year for a fancy dress party. Was thinking of inviting mrjack but i wud normally take my kids to a party at hers. He may already have plans anyway but would u ask him? I get the feeling from what he's said he's not scared of meeting the kids, well he almost met dd2 last night when she woke up and i heard her creeping lol but still i dont know?

Hello all wow alot to catch up on. Didn't get up til 1pm today.

I'm still ill and not up to full speed yet but am back to work tomorrow, have gp appt on tues about something else should I feel so crap at work i need signing off.

Belle - all sounds promising

Spice - this would bother me greatly having been married to a controlling twunt. In fact as some of you may remember samename freaked me out when he insisted I had a bottle of diet coke rather than a can (which I prefer) because 'I would spill it in my car'. If I want to have a f**king can then I will!!

Mr Yorke is also ringing/texting several times a day and has told me that 'now I have someone to look after me' which tends to make me feel like retreating/run away fast.

My db is also very smothering with women so I have witnessed this sort of thing from his perspective. I've told him he's too much but he still repeats the same pattern over and over again. He has also tried to pull this stunt with me but always gets short shrift. And its always dressed up in 'because we care about you'.

Juicy - think this situation is all going to roll out very nicely over the Christmas and New Year Period. Just a feeling.

Monty - are we now friends on facebook.

Hope I haven't missed anyone - Eve - yes always liked a bad boy.

Lou - am tracking your recovery to see how soon it wil be before I feel back to normal.

Betty - I would take hiim to the party.

if he would look pretty on your arm then take him

scl i am pretty much over the snottiness now, but still have the cough

which is actually starting to do my head in, so if it doesnt improve soon i am back down the doc to take up my own personal parking space and chair

i forgot to mention, exh called the kids for about 2 mins today (he is meant to have them on sundays isnt he, but said not to bother)

i am that he even thinks a call makes up for his appalling behaviour

lol at looking pretty on my arm might ask him next time i see him so i can guage his reaction properly

Are people watching the x factor final tonight? that's my plan and have told dd she can stay up and watch it

i just heard v briefly from batman, he is in the canaries

Thanks all for wise words. I don't do controlling men - they give me the heebie-jeebies.

I am also (and I didn't tell you this earlier because I didn't want to sway your judgement) having a fuck-buddy relationship with a much younger man who absolutely knocks my socks off. And given that's really the only bit I miss about having a relationship, I can't see the point of giving up the best sex I've ever had for a man who is giving out dodgy vibes from the off. And yes I know I could date one while shagging the other but I am rubbish at that kind of thing

betty - definitely think you should ask mrjack to NYE - you can make it a casual 'this is what I'm doing, do you fancy coming along' if you are worried he's going to reject you. And more important than how he feels about meeting your DCs, how do you feel about it?

Have no idea what the rest of you are talking about

spice-dont think id give up the fb for the other guy if it were me either

I will do the casual asking about nye, i dont really know how i feel about him meeting the kids tbh will have to think about that before i decide to ask or not lol

lou-lucky sod

dont give up hte fb yet

batman will be nice and golden for me on saturday, yay

ooh nice bronzed batman eh lou

scl-hope ur feeling better soon

I feel like I'm coming down with the kids cold

well he got the job in aus, but it looks like he isnt going til march now