Am i wrong too be annoyed??

[thesunshinesbrightly]

My child's father was meant too have him today but as his other children were ill he couldnt have him, no questions asked, even though he doesnt tell me himslef, a relative does(nothing new) but i see his children out and they did not look ill too me, am i wrong to be annoyed?

I'm not sure on this one. The way you've put it, no, you're absolutely right to be livid.

But how would you feel if he had your dc and your dc got ill because his other dc are actually ill and you didn't know.

No excuse though for him not telling you about it himself