winnie thats from first contact to first date. those are only ones who have gotten past first date. you will see my list of others a few pages past that were all meetings in under 1 month of talking. some as quick as 1 week were most definately my worst dates.
asbm - yeah yeah.... well seeing you spotted that double edged comment , hows the lovely you, actionman and dc btw?
as for size. as i've been losing i put "prefer not to say".... and make sure there is a full body profile on my profile.
i seen that thread your talking about winnie. i agree they dont mind curves and any decent fella doesn't have issues with saggy belly and boobs of pregnancies.
but i dont think its healthy or attractive if you are in the "obese" categaory of BMI index. i am now technically very "overweight" on those charts which is very off as i'm now getting comments from friends and family that its time to stop loosing weight and stay as i am. so the BMI isn't always right. everyones different depending on shape and build.
i do however think its important to be fit. no matter what size i am, i always like to be physically fit. truth is it helps in relationship to. sex is whole lot more fun if your fit to participate. but if your out of breath in 5 mins and have to just lie there like a sack of potatoes as your knackered, and sweating profusely it just isn't attractive.
same as i really couldn't care less is a man has some extra weight. as long as he's not grunting like a pig, expecting me to go on top to do all the work and dripping sweat droplets on me after 10 mins. i dont mind both getting a bit sticky both of you if you've been as it got couple of hr though , then its deserved.
obviously million other reasons for being fit. but from our dating thread angle this is an important one i think.
and yes... i know its not all about sex in a relationship.... but thats what happens at some point ... and no matter how interesting someone is there's no point if your not going to enjoy the sex when you get there.
the good thing is... weight may take time to alter, but getting youself fit takes only a week or 2 to get to a decent level that you start to feel better about yourself.
lou - beachbum is good looking i would say. lovely eyes. he's not super hot like some of the dates (mind you best looking one was dull as dishwater) i would say probably on par with superman if you remeber what he looks like.
janos and asbm have seen a pic. they can be honest.
oh and BBW - this is really if you are obese. if your belly is lower than your fanjo type of thing.cant tell where you face ends and necks begine.. get my drift.
no point saying dress size as someone 5ft2 and size 18 looks very different from someone 5ft11 same size.