Where have all the fit and intersting men gone part 10 (part 10...already?!)

[Janos]

Yay, I get to start this one!

Anyways hey to Dee and mousie, the more the merrier I say

Morning all
You all had busy weekends! I had three pages to catch up on.
Well yes I did messag the hot guy back. No reponse so far. Been asked for drinks by the PE teacher on POF so will say yes to that.
Umm not heard from Stelios for a few days so ???
ANNNDDDD went to party on satuday night (do not mix rose, pina coladas, barcadi and absinthe shots. Not a good morning does this make) and ended up sleeping with a guy there. Not the best ever but considering we were both drunk and it had been many many many years for me it was good to get back in the saddle (so to speak)

thanks itm
i'm walking around with a big smile on my face today
and yes the exh
how's things with you?
are you feeling brighter today?

llaj
ewww absinthe shots too
jesus you must have felt rough on sunday
ewww my stomach is churning now at the thought of it

Yes even the bacon and eggs did not help. I really am too old for the late night drinking and partying!

So now of course I am over analysing everything about the evening

• we had been flirting on and off all night
• he stayed and had lunch
• walked into town with me
• asked for my number
• offered to pay for the morning after pill (yes yes I know yery silly)

Sooo should I leave it as a one night stand or see if something could happen??

aww llaj, am so happy that you have at last managed to rid yourself of your celibacy

he sounds a nice guy, if I was you I would leave it up to him, he obviously likes you.

stop analysising and keep on pof, checking out your other options!

he will call, if he is into you.

LLAJ I would just wait and see if he makes any effort to continue it. Whatever you do leave any further contact firmly with him. By all means see him again if this happens and you like him.

If not then chalk it up to a one night stand. These things happen ocassionally. Just brush it off and move on. Speaking from experience here

asbm, have my mind on other things this morning, my dd is off school sick with flu like symptoms!

she should be ok in a couple of days, am more worried that ds will get it, and he is definitely on the at risk list, his dad had him last night and will also have him tonight to try and stop him getting the flu, but I don't hold out much hope

following your lead I am making plans to introduce the dcs to the nm, omg I never thought it would happen!!!!!!!

I am not making any effort. Did all the effort on Sat night
Still keeping on the sites though. Much entertainment from them.
Ohh I do not mind the old one night stand. I liked him when I met him a few months ago so that is why I am overanalysing everything.
Thnks for the advice. Sometimes you just need someone to tell you what you alrady know.

mandolin man just got in touch to say he is still in devon they stayed an extra day

which explains why i havent heard from him

llaj - glad you broke your drowt , will do wonders for your confidence i'd guess. leave it up to him. sounds like a nice bloke so you never know.

lou - good things still going with mandolin.

asbm - still really pleased for you.

itm - good luck with dc and nm.

eve

thanks rj and itm
hope i have made you feel a little easier about introducing mm to your dcs
mine are with me again this coming w/e so am wondering whether i should let him stay over?
obv.i wouldn't let them see that he'd be sharing my bed will have to make up the sofa bed iyswim then make sure we're up at the crack of dawn lol
does this sound a good idea?
any other suggestions welcome!
he is after all my friend haven't used the boyfriend word in front of the kids

sounds ok to me

asbm, sounds good to me, is there any chance that they will be up before you?

Personally I would be worried that it might happen, so would maybe spend a bit more time with the dcs, maybe another weekend, before explaining that he is actually mummy's boyfriend and that he will be staying over in her bed

but that is just me

if my older ones are anything to go by, they call any bloke i am seen with more than once my bf (that's without them even staying over), so they may well come to their own conclusions

well ok they saw us having a little kiss yesterday so maybe they knowbut we tried to be discreet!
and yes chatted to rj earlier and received some good advice thanks again you're a star
ie leave things til exh has heard news then go from there so he can't throw any bigger tantrums than usual
all my friends tho are grinning like mad today!!

mm is currently lolling about on my bed drinking a beer looking like he is about to nod off, pondering what film we should watch tonight, while i go for a bath

morning all, well, bigT story has taken a turn. not sure what i shall do about it. waiting to get some more info before i make up my mind. but this one may be a non-starter. its all a bit complicated where his dd is concerned.

why is it sometimes you hear these kinda things and it makes you think the whole dating think is a bit of a pita. gonna put my head down for a few days and concentrate on the studying i think.

cocktail hasn't given up either. he know thinking i'm trying to "challenge" him to see if he's worthy.... nonononono i just dont fancy you in that way. trying to be gentle with him as he really is a lovely guy,but i may loose my patience.

pirate kept popping up till i unblocked him last night as we had agreed to chat last night. i just couldn't be arsed.made excuses about studying but said hi.

the farmer came for quick hello yesterday too.

jeeze no wonder i need a break.

oh and i was drunk last week and had a half canned conversation with another while replying 2 bigT. for some reason i gave him number. totally forgot. he sent me a message to say great to talk but he was at airport for flight and speak when he came back. .... well he's now back. i had completely fogotten about it in my drunken state till i got a text from "guy pof", will have to search back my email and see what i've done through alcohol.

lol oops rj

rj that crown is sitting v pretty on your head atm

itm how is your dd feeling?
and has ds managed to avoid catching it?

morning all, how do you keep up with them all rj?

dd is much recovered and will probably be at school tomorrow, definitely not swine flu as I have heard that it can it quite horrible.

will be picking up ds from school today, I miss the little s**t when he is not here

so guys how often do you get to see your new men? marathon man is coming over for lunch on thursday, yeah but am not sure if he available for the weekend! Should it be classed as a ldr and if so how the hell does it work?

itm - with great difficulty today i'm trying to study and had 2 on msn already, so they have now been blocked.

how far away does marathon man stay? and how often do you see him weekly? fortnightly? twice week?

he works nights so this does complicate things

he lives in maidenhead and I live in nooorth london

its about an hour by motor bike 1.5 by car

just a bit jealous of lou

well that's a relief to hear for you
i see mine according to his shift patterns last week was 4 times i think but imagine possibly this week will just be over the weekend unless he comes round during a week night.
and yes will hold my hands up here and admit that i am actually missing him now

I think thats my problem to asbm, missing him

I've forgotten what its like to date and I guess this is part of it.

I know its a bit soon but do you think you will end up living together?