I have been seeing a really nice guy for the last 4.5 months - I am really concious of not introducing my daugter to a string of boyfriens that fade into the distance! He is the only one she has met after 3months of going out Anyway I have been away a long weekend with him and we are planning a 1 week holiday in 2 months when my 3 year old wil stay with her dad for a week. However my mother and sis keep telling me that my next holiday we should have my daughter with us and my boyfriend should know she is part of the package. This isnt an issue as my boyfriend thinks my daughter is great - but I feel its too early for my daughter to go on holiday with us. I am very very hapy with my boyfriend but obviosuly with my husband walking out on us has made me very wary and I want to take things slowly and avoid my daughter being confused should it ot work out. I would welcome others advise as I really dont know if they are right or I am wrong!