SO how do I meet nice men?

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How do I meet nice mature men?

I don't know any guys that don't work with me and my social life is lacking somewhat. It revolves around, mums at my DD's dancing, mums at the school, work (beenthere done that) and leaders and mums at brownies.

That doesn't give many opportunities tomeet men other than peoples husbands and guys at work.

So other than going out with some mums or girls from work and geting off with some guy in a pub how do I open up more opportunities to meet people?

ohh we're onto the online dating thing here aren't we?
can't say they're all nice but they're not in RL either
but you can take things at your own pace and have fun from the comfort of your own home
def.worth a try imo

I met dh through online dating. So much easier imo - we e - mailed, messaged and chatted before we met. We knew everything about each other before we even met.

I don't know, I want to meet real people, feel like a saddo spemding all my nights on here as it is.

LOL and who do you think is at the other end of the keyboard? a real person!

Its just another way of meeting men. Its no different in my opinion to going out to a pub. You'll get your idiots, you'll get your players and sometimes someone nice will come along.

There's no magic place where only intelligent, nice and respectable men hang out. If you are struggling to get out then online dating's your best bet. Just remember to take care and take everything people say with a pinch of salt until proven otherwise.

thanks I know what you are saying but I think I would like to see what sort of idiot I am dealing with still armed with the barrel of salt of course.

Can someone not arrange a magic place for me though, I would be very grateful.