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where have all the fit and interesting men gone part.....9? isit 9?

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ridingjoker · 23/05/2009 07:08

ooooh i get to start the thread.
unless i'm being thick and cant find it.

lou - go on send me a pic of dark horse i'm so nosey.

ninah - i think thats really rude of your friend. if she didn't have anything nice to say she shouldn't have said anything at all.

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lou33 · 08/06/2009 13:50

no i havent

i am being told by more than one person to keep them both for now!

lostinthecitylover · 08/06/2009 14:24

yes I think I might be dumping him - think the reality is not so one-sided as it might seem on here - he keeps saying I only want him for his body . Whilst that isn't true it might be the message I am giving.

Ie pretty light hearted and use humour alot

I think if he was honest he really wants a serious relationship
and I don't know if I can give him that in the way I think he might want.

We are in a sort of no mans land. I am going to sit tight atm and see what occurs.

Plus I stil have strong feelings for exbf

lostinthecitylover · 08/06/2009 14:25

yes lou can understand where you're coming from.

lou33 · 08/06/2009 14:41

my theory that it would help me decide backfired pretty spectacularly really

lol

ridingjoker · 08/06/2009 14:46

lou- it could backfire even more spectacularly if they both find out about each other and you end up with neither

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LouLovesAeroplaneJelly · 08/06/2009 14:57

neither princess treatment I think. Never having been treated as one I have nothing to compate too.

lou - but of a pickle but you right about waiting and seeing what happens.

lou33 · 08/06/2009 16:08

it could do but i wont be sobbing into my pillow about it rj

ridingjoker · 08/06/2009 17:31

lou33 - excuse my stupidity as been away and only scanned the wkd events? are you wwaiting till you've gotten to the itch scratching stage with batman before deciding? or have you already done that and need a few more practice rounds on both fellas before you make up your mind who to keep (if any)?

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lou33 · 08/06/2009 17:42

i scratched the itch

i am still undecided

i need to blend them together really

inthemistsoftime · 08/06/2009 18:06

good idea lou, wouldn't it be great if we could choose the good attributes of our respective cyber man and combine them into one!

I would have the body of marathon man (still dreaming about it!), the mind of skippy the diy skills of bob the builder the earning power of the kids dad.

lou33 · 08/06/2009 18:25

lol i dont think i would put any attribute from exh into my perfect man!

Janos · 08/06/2009 18:41

Evening everybody

rj - glad you had a nice weekend away with the DCs. Makes such a diff doesn't it when there's someone else to help (even if they drive you nuts).

I had a lovely start to the day as DS decided to lie in until half eight. Absolute bliss. I had to check the clock twice to make sure lol.

Also met up with an old school friend who lives in Embra AND has a little boy the same age as me. Well we really hit it off and had a fantastic day.

So, all is well except..DS Dad is being nice an reasonable so I expect as per usual some unpleasant trick up his sleeve...still hey ho can't live my life worrying about him.

Janos · 08/06/2009 18:43

Oh, and she's an MNetter! Small world or what

whoopsididitagain · 08/06/2009 19:19

hi im new to the thread been seperated 16 months

and i dont believe nice and interestimg men exsist any more

damn it im 27

lou33 · 08/06/2009 19:24

hello

Janos · 08/06/2009 19:25

Welcome whoops

ridingjoker · 08/06/2009 19:31

hi whoops. another my age. woo hoo. where abouts are you?

have you been looking in RL or tried any internet dating?

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LouLovesAeroplaneJelly · 08/06/2009 20:10

Well have been talking to talking to another whom I will rename GeekBoy. Has been all well and good until...today when he asked me how much I weighed. WTF is all that about. Umm my profile photos indicate that I am fat. How much more evidence do you need?

Janos · 08/06/2009 20:15

He asked you how much you weighed? That's out of order. Very rude.

LouLovesAeroplaneJelly · 08/06/2009 20:22

That is what I said. I didn't ask how big his dick was did I.

aseriouslyblondemoment · 08/06/2009 20:38

evening all!
hi whoops!
rj glad you had a good break,hope weather wasn't too much of a washout?!did you miss marvel?
and the princess treatment for me is being treated like a lady with good old fashioned manners,did smile @ action man even opening car door for me lol
and no i don't want gifts i am an easily pleased girl who likes life's simple pleasures.
llaj latest with BSH?
janos-sounds lovely and at ex but he''ll never stop that man.
scl-hmm,am glad you're chilled here
itm-hi!
eve-where are you?need news!i miss you lol
lou-any news?
ninah-will mail you back!
nothing new with me atm may see actionman later in the week homelife permitting,have already turned down a sunday meet with him as i'm never sure how sundays will pan out and he wanted to make a day of it.
god hope i havent missed anyone out here,apologies if i have

aseriouslyblondemoment · 08/06/2009 20:42

llaj thats bloody rude what a prick hope you've blocked him
tho i admit to being slim it does annoy me when i see a woman's dress size max added to profiles

LouLovesAeroplaneJelly · 08/06/2009 20:43

Hi whoops. Welcome aboard. Don't worry I am 29 and have been disillusioned for many years.
Asmb - have been talking with BSH on MSN and phone. Will try and catch up this week. Want to go out out with him. Got to see if he can hold a knife and fork properly. That's the deal breaker with me.

aseriouslyblondemoment · 08/06/2009 20:49

llaj-aww bless him!im sure he can?where you off to?will you be doing drinking games?!

LouLovesAeroplaneJelly · 08/06/2009 20:55

Well he texted me this morning to ask how I was (went to a roller disco on Saturday night and then the Summertime Ball on Sunday so was tired and aching from too much dancing and skating) and he offered to give me a massage (he is a physio). In my younger days I was slutty less discrete and did not have time limit on the 'first time'. Out of curiosity, what is the waiting period these days?

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