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Advice who contacts csa him or her?

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mamas12 · 22/05/2009 18:59

My friend's ex has stopped maintenance payments and she has told him to contact csa. HE WON'T but I thought that she had to contact them to chase him?
Am I right?

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oldspotraver · 23/05/2009 17:36

Is he paying through CSA in the first instance ?? If he is and has stopped paying she will need to chase it up, I seriously doubt CS Awill chase it up unless severley prodded

Does she know why he has stopped payments ?? If he thionks he is paying too much or his circumstances have changed its in his best interests to contact them

mamas12 · 23/05/2009 19:02

Thanks for replying
No it was a private arrangement but he has had another baby with someone else last year and now says he can't afford to pay her.
My question is who contacts csa first? I think it should be her to chase him, but she has told him to contact them to pay through them! He won't of course.

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oldraver · 23/05/2009 19:36

Well if he wont then its obvious she will have to if she wants any money. As its a private arrangement he can just stop paying and there is nothing to make him is there ??. If he thinks he can get out of it he will

She can fill the form in online

mamas12 · 23/05/2009 21:07

Can she now thanks oldraver

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Snorbs · 24/05/2009 00:28

Either parent can apply to the CSA.

The clock starts ticking for calculation of arrears from the time the CSA contacts the non-resident parent so it's worth doing it sooner rather than later.

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