where have all the fit,interesting and available men gone (part 7)

[aseriouslyblondemoment]

blimey onto pt. 7 here!
and im on msn to my latest cyberman
still thinking up a nickname

I think I need to come over here to recover lol.

In the past 2 weeks I have had a 22yr old tell me i'm hot etc and then suddenly remember he has a gf and now a really crappy phone call with someone else that has made me cancel a date.

It's great to realise that I am capable of getting interest but blimey lol.

well nutty
at least you know you're not alone
my latest venture will def.be my last for a while
i just can't put myself thru this atm.
still have 3 months membership tho

What site is that seriouslyb ??

I might give a paying site a go after my holiday when i actually have some money lol.

frd
friends reunited dating
i have plenty of offers,been out with 3 since i rejoined
but can't seem to meet anyone who hits the spot iyswim

asbm, what did happen with the one that away, did you ever meet up?

Hi everyone,
Had a busy weekend of it but no dates lol!

Hope everyone who had dates got on OK!. Sorry about yours asbm - never mind eh(hug)

he says his head is fucked after seeing me again and he is all over the place

i dont know what i think of it all, it's certainly knocked me for 6

i told him to not worry too much and just enjoy it, i know he isnt around forever

omg and as if i dont have my head spinning enough, my best male friend, has just called and asked me and the kids to move to zimbabwe with him

he has offered to build me a house on his family land and told me i wouldnt have to worry about finances or working again

my brain has just melted

blimey lou
never a dull moment lol

2 hours ago i was saying to a friend that it would be nice to have a simple personal life but it never is

he said he wants to go home and he doesnt want to leave us behind, he has enough land there to build 2 houses if needs be, that i am his best mate and he loves my kids and doesnt want to leave us behind, and he can give me a better quality of life there than i will have here, and wouldnt have to worry about money or working

i asked him what if he met someone he wanted to settle down with and he said its not an option, he wants to give us a better life

his family are v wealthy over there

omg i should be a soap

Blimey Lou, are you feeling dizzy, I would be.

jeeze nutty
just read your thread
omfg
is he still at it?

Lol no more txts or messages since about 3ish so hopefully thats that.

til pub chucking out time

Flipping heck Lou what are you going to do. What is life like for his family in Zim? Are they OK living under Mugawbe (sp). I lived in SA and would jump at an offer like that to go back the way I am feeling atm.

Blimey, and I thought my life was like a soap!

Nice to see you nutty

Evening all!!

Lou my god your life is like a roller coaster.

I am feeling rough - my throat is still sore and voice croaky plus have got a really bad attack of thrush . Didn't really have enough money to buy the super duper medication so have settled for the basic stuff. TMI?

Had some very negative interactions with exH today - it's just the same old crap from him I am afraid and although am trying to learn ways to interact with him differently (helped by counselling) it's very hard when he is still pushing all my buttons.

Am seeing samename2 later this week but he is also ill. Hopefully we will both be feeling better by then.

Sorry for the negative post!

scl - you post isn't negative. you have another date, thats great

That's true.

Just spending a couple of hours in exHs company was the pits!! And totally exhausting.

yeah, i know what you mean.

i went to see him and wasnt too pleased to find he had started drinking, but aside from that this is what he said...

i already know his family have a large piece of land which the family home is on, which is large and rambling as it is

his mother has said she wants to give over 2 acres for us to build a place on from scratch that we would design ourselves

he said his family financial situation was such that i wouldnt have to worry about money or working, we would be taken care of

i asked him why he wanted to take me and the kids and do such a thing, to which he replied that i was his best friend, i had saved his life, he loved me, he couldnt imagine not seeing me and not having him in his life every day, but he wanted to go home, and he couldnt go back knowing we were struggling back here while everything was easy for him

he also added he wasnt going to be having his own kids and he loved mine and wanted to take care of us

i asked him why his mother would want to do such a generous thing as well, and he said because he has told her all about me , and that i am his life saver, and she calls me his guardian angel, and she wants to repay the debt she feels she owes me

i have told him i wont give an answer in a hurry as there are so many issues to consider, but i want to see real planning from him rather than airy fairy ideas, before i commit to anything

this is something that would take a year or so to happen btw (if it did at all)

does sound v airy fairy, would be a real upheaval for you wouldn't it? is beautiful country but the politics are terrifying, massive inflation instability etc
one to keep on the back burner?
he does sound quite impulsive
so much going on lou
was really upset about your exex dilemma but you seem so sensible, and you are right, you are in the picture, just hope you really are as sorted about it as you sound
feast or famine, isn't it?

he needs to go back home i really believe he does, he just wants me to be with him as well

i told him to make plans and show me stuff and then we can talk

well that's Ok, quite exciting
no worries about money or working would do it for me right now, if such Utopia exists
New term, school gates, moaning boss ...