where have all the fit,interesting and available men gone (part 7)

[aseriouslyblondemoment]

blimey onto pt. 7 here!
and im on msn to my latest cyberman
still thinking up a nickname

oh and as usually happens, the bloke i went out with the last sunday had been back in touch and i just got an email from some bloke i almost but never met, some time last year!`

hope you told him to rest up for weekend there lou
i have discovered over past few days that phileas has been checking up on me online
mentioned this to a couple of the others off this thread
what do you think he's up to?
am really not sure here tbh.

phileas?

i just asked him if i managed to borrow a helmet for the weekend can we go on his bike..

he is at work so dont expect immediate replies, but would love to go for a ride

yep its phileas!!
i think these fellas have a sixth sense they seem to know that we have our options at the plenty so come aft.us
amazing what a bit of competition does to a man
i would def.get that helmet sorted out tho esp as weather meant to be good

remind me who phileas is?

hes the guy i havent met as yet but has asked me out.
hes new to the whole dating thing again app.
hes in touch every day thru msn mostly
seems genuinely a nice guy

give him a go?

yeah i'll meet him and see how it goes,i just don't app.his checking up on me online esp.when he isn't even in the uk atm.
put it this way all of my friends will know precisely of my whereabouts that day just in case
what have you said to the ym from the other sunday?

handing laptop over to ds1 now for homework!

if you have any doubt then dont meet him, maybe he was just seeing if you were about for a chat?

blimey i am tired i may have to forego chores and nap again!

am asking a mate to borrow a helmet, he said he would take me out on it

how do you mean checking up on you, looking at your profile and stuff, seeing when you are online?
I think that's OK?
sounds worth a meet from what you say

do you have apic on your profile. perhaps phileas is just reminding himself what yuo look like. i had to do that with diver. but i checked his photo offline so he didn't know iykwim.

i can never remember faces.

samename1 and I are getting on really well - in touch each day and seeing him again on Thurs. BUT (and would appreciate opinions) he is online alot of the time.

I can't be bothered atm to be honest can't handle more than one at once if we are planning ongoing meetings - shall I broach it with him (face to face) and what do I say without looking like a bboiler.

Confused really. Torn between playing it ultra cool and speaking my mind. Also he could be confused too because on our first date I felt backed into a corner by him asking me (quite forcefully) what did I want, what did I want and I kept saying wasn't sure and think in the end said I def wanted fun. Perhaps I need to recheck with him what he is looking for.

yes I have revisited profiles to check details. Mr Keen was the only one who came back and said - ooh you've checked my profile - if someone keeps looking at mine don't mind really.

i think you have to have some type of conversation about what you want, as there seems to be a bit of confusion

ex bf has been in touch all day

yes I will he's pretty open as a person so I dont feel awkward talking to him about it but want to do it face to face rather than by phone or text. He said on more than one occasion why hasn't someone already snapped me up LOL

evening all!
guess you're all right here about phileas i am just wary i guess aft.some of the basket cases ive seemed to attract before
scl imo i wouldnt bring up the subject i would just go with the flow
when you say that he's been online is this on the site or on fb?

tell himt hey tried but you broke their fingers

he's on the site. I will see how Thursday goes.

Thing is I am not prepared to invest most of my spare time on him if he is still trawling. But I agree I have given him mixed messages due to my general wariness regarding relationships.

Lou lol

why do all men think the answer to a woman's porblems is to be with a man?

sorry should have said some men not all men!!

see also when I started up with exbf remember telling him that the last thing I wanted was another partner. (was only a few months separated) oh how I laughed.

Some of it is true but some of it is a defence mechanism.

scl is he actually trawling tho?
let's face it us girls still love to go on and check up on our messages
would the length of time he's on tie in with this?
at least he's being open about it unlike me who goes on hidden

personally i think men are the cause of most of our problems not the solution