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where have all the fit, interesting and available men gone (part 6)

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sincitylover · 21/03/2009 12:20

thrilled to be kicking off part 6 on a sinful note lol

Blaming the vino for texting samename1 and asking him out - he text right back suggesting early this afternoon but don't think I can make it as am waiting for my brother who is coming down to help me swap washing machines and is always late bless him!

Then had a rather raunchy chat with young guy who have been in touch with for ages - trying to think of a nickname for him - very good looking - lives in your neck of the woods Lou. Think we might meet up soon.

At least resisted the urge to text exbf.

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Monty27withabunnyrabbit · 05/04/2009 00:29

Hi asbm - see, not so bad.

Give us the gorey then.

Lou - that bloke sounds a bit

aseriouslyblondemoment · 05/04/2009 00:35

hi monty!
just spotted your email,will reply later on!
yes he was ok,nice bloke,made me laugh,polite and respectful etc etc
and a nice couple of hours out really
got lost on the way home tho thanks to roadworks
how's your evening been?

Monty27withabunnyrabbit · 05/04/2009 00:39

That's great, I think its nice getting out for a couple of hours. Don't get the feeling there was any great vibes though?

We had a takeaway, just did too much today. I think I'm gonna hit the hay now.

Speak tomorrow.

Nite all.
xx

lou33 · 05/04/2009 01:07

i've taken a sleeping pill and am off to bed, so far i havent heard any more

he will get the hint one day yes?

glad it went well asbm

aseriouslyblondemoment · 05/04/2009 11:16

morning all!
blissful another sunny day here!
hope its equally lovely where you all are
monty yes you think right here!
nice bloke but def no chem, well not for me anyhow!
lou hope he does get the message and as i said am truly relieved that you never met him omg he'd be an absolute nightmare wouldn't he?
hope you manage to get your lunch with this fella this aft.

aseriouslyblondemoment · 05/04/2009 13:32

Monty i think i've mailed you but not sure as I'm having isp issues
do hope you got it,if not will resend later

sincitylover · 05/04/2009 13:34

Hi all

Am meeting samename2 again this week!!

Had a very traumatic morning - mass brawl (of manager/parents) at my son's football match this morning.

It was a f*ing disgrace and such a bad example to set to kids.

We are all really quite shaken. But my DS1 was impressed by the way I rounded our team's kids up, to try to keep them away from the melee. He said I showed leadership qualities!!!!LOL

Haven't witnessed a fight for ages and also felt that horrible adrenaline rush when anything like that happens.

I felt shaky for the whole drive home.

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 05/04/2009 13:57

SCL that's awful!
hope you're feeling better now,I would be rightly shaken too
so samename2 the steamy chem guy?
oooohhhh!!
i thought that he'd suffered broken finger syndrome?
any more news of samename1?

ninah · 05/04/2009 15:16

asbm you are being very reserved about your date. No chem - go on, spill, did you leave through the loo window, or what? will you see him again
sorry you are having hassle lou but sounds like you have more interesting things on the horizon, any thoughts about what to do re ex yet?
holly do you hear from fittie these days?
spent yesterday with nm, he is not my dream lover exactly but he really took my mind off dc being with their dad for the first time, he is a good if over priapic friend I suppose and I'm Ok with that if I remember to accept it for what it is
monty will look for your other thread
I thought you lot were on about Jeremy Kyle last night

ninah · 05/04/2009 15:25

lol at meeting asbm and sincity in relationships merry divorcees

aseriouslyblondemoment · 05/04/2009 16:33

hi ninah!
hmm nm sounding ominous?
are you resigned to this?
he was actually very nice to be fair,better looking than his pic,respectful and polite etc
but there was no chem on my part can't speak for him tho
he told me to text him if id like to go out again,i said that he would have to text me

so if he does then i will have a think and if he doesn't then i won't be fussed
hahaha jeremy?
yeah hes pissed off hasn't he?
and yes scl and i are very merry divorcees and too bloody right too!

Remotew · 05/04/2009 17:56

asbm so your instincts were correct but sounds better that you expected albeit slightly. Good idea to only consider keeping in touch if he makes an effort, he probably sensed that you were 50/50.

Look forward to hearing how Lou gets on with her afternoon. I've nothing to report at all. Just had a message on POF from a local younger man. Photo wasn't too off putting but you can tell from his profile that he's thick as pig s..t so he's another one not be getting a reply, definitley not fit or interesting.

sincitylover · 05/04/2009 18:04

yes feeling alot better now thx- had a sleep and that helped. Ive had three very early mornings on the trot. What was so scary about it is that sometimes these things escalate and people get seriously hurt. Thankfully only a few cuts and bruises on a couple of our guys. Unfortunately police were called and then sent away!!

Back to samename2 yes he was my date on Thursday who kissed me unexpectedly while we were still in the bar (sitting opposite but he got up and came around to my side of table) and then while I was waiting for the bus. My memory of the end of the evening a bit hazy but yes def chemistry there. Thinks I am shy lol.

I have told him we have to eat some food when we meet later in the week. Think I might have an empty house that night but not sure whether I will invite him back or might wait a bit.

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 05/04/2009 18:06

eve yes i think he's put the ball in my court as he's basically very unsure of himself
but in true yummy mummy mn fashion i batted it back
so its up to him as he'll be waiting a lifetime for me to text him
broken fingered that i am lol
lol at pof dude
{asbm shaking head here}
oh deary deary me!

ridingjoker · 05/04/2009 18:36

hi all,

suffering hangover. had nigh out with girls to wet new baby head.

some guy got his friend to ask me to dance was like being in playground. he was ok looking but i didn't even entertain it and supposed to behaving.

bumped into marvel. who's text today. unsure how i will handle it. might ignore. might text or call to tell him i'm with nm or back with ex or turned lesbian. something or anything that will stop him getting hopes up as it's obvious we are going to bump into each other again.

oh and one group of men asked if me and friend were lesbians with our dirty dancing and piss taking of the oldies songs.

i'm going to bed with dc tonight as i am suffering.

asbm - think you should go on another date

lou - waiting to hear of your date.

and things are still on track with superman and going well.

lou33 · 05/04/2009 18:57

omg what an afternoon!

lou33 · 05/04/2009 19:20

ok, this may be long!

firstly young man for the afternoon arrived an hour early, so it meant a bit of a dash about to be ready in time

i picked him up from the station, definitely my type to look at

we went to a local bar, because as he had arrived early it meant i had to go back to mine to drop one of my kids to a friend (i was going to drop then meet him you see), so it meant he unintentionally met a couple of them (tho he sat in the car they came out to be nosey)

after that we went to another more out of the way place to have some lunch, then onto guildford where we sat by the river chatting in the sunshine, where he kept holding my hand , then grabbed it on the way back to the car as well

i dropped him to the station and it went no further than a bit of a kiss, while he waited for the train, so it seems to have gone ok and he appears to want to see me again, despite the best efforts of my best mate to ruin it all afternoon (tho inadvertently)

did i mention that my best friend went to a club with mates in london last night (boys only), and rang me throughout the whole date, still drunk saying he didnt know where he was and could i come get him? Then he called to say he had fallen into a hole in the road and had to be helped out, and as he rang off i said be careful as he was drunk and not sure of where he was, dont get mugged. Ten mins later he calls me to say he has been mugged. Not only that but he refused to give up his wallet, instead he told them to try and take it off him (2 guys), and he gave them a pasting, they legged it, the police came looking for him, but they finally picked him up at guildford station when he got off his train, and charged him with affray

god knows what young man thought,but he appeared v laid back about it

so after i dropped ym at the station i went to see my bf, and he was there in only a towel and a pair of socks, drunkenly told me how important i was to him, how i never let him down, how great i am etc

then he asked me how my date went (i finally had to spell it out on the phone that he seemed to have forgotten what i was doing today), tried to cop a feel, at which point i told him to go to bed, and i would take him down the police station in the morning

at least thesp has been quiet tho!

Remotew · 05/04/2009 19:29

Wow Lou!

Sounds promising and I hope all the interruptions from you friend hasn't put him off.

As for your friend. Sounds like he has feelings for you but you know it wouldn't work so hope things continue to go well with the man of today.

lou33 · 05/04/2009 19:34

he has sent me a few texts since i dropped him, basically saying he had a good time and not to worry about my mate interrupting

we shall see

he has gone to a family do now

lou33 · 05/04/2009 19:38

he is nice this new one, but he is only 28

my friend was grilling me, did he have good manners, did he try anything on, did he treat you well

then was charming enough to say he probably only wants to see me again because i havent shagged him

sounds like most men to me

laughable really seeing as 5 mins later he was trying to put his hand inside my shirt

aseriouslyblondemoment · 05/04/2009 19:42

jeeze lou never a dull moment with you
glad that ym managed to put a smile on tho,now that is good to hear
scl sorry i got confused about the samenames for some reason i thought that it was 1 not 2 as 2 and you had already met and he was difficult to pin down for another meet
doh!

lou33 · 05/04/2009 19:45

seems that way doesnt it

my friend wants me to go away with him the weekend after next but i dont know if i can face it

aseriouslyblondemoment · 05/04/2009 19:47

oh dear!
they're like buses aren't they?

lou33 · 05/04/2009 19:49

no this is my friend, best friend

but i get the feeling he will just be bolloxed the whole time, which means i will drive or else i will be worried that he will be too drunk to get us back

he wants me to go see friends of his in essex

aseriouslyblondemoment · 05/04/2009 19:56

sounds like you've already decided here
it doesn't sound much fun being the driver of a pissed up bloke all weekend

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