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where have all the fit, interesting and available men gone (part 6)

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sincitylover · 21/03/2009 12:20

thrilled to be kicking off part 6 on a sinful note lol

Blaming the vino for texting samename1 and asking him out - he text right back suggesting early this afternoon but don't think I can make it as am waiting for my brother who is coming down to help me swap washing machines and is always late bless him!

Then had a rather raunchy chat with young guy who have been in touch with for ages - trying to think of a nickname for him - very good looking - lives in your neck of the woods Lou. Think we might meet up soon.

At least resisted the urge to text exbf.

OP posts:
Onestonetogo · 04/04/2009 00:17

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 04/04/2009 00:27

oh thank fcuk for you Lou
so i am normal!
and were your gut feelings right?
please tell me!
hi onestonetogo!
hop on and join in the more the merrier lol
we're all in the same shite boat don't worry!
i'm on FRD so are a few of the others
but POF is a big hit with many and it's free
and my date for tomorrow is from frd
where are you up to with all this malarkey?

Monty27withabunnyrabbit · 04/04/2009 00:31

ASBM - lol at munter, love it. I totally understand that, no chemistry. But give it a go. It doesn't have to be whistles and bells and it might be ok. Its a reason to get the lippie on!

I've never, ever felt chemistry with anyone like Al. (ok I'll call him that instead of Onoff). But that's not to say I would compromise my pride happiness for it. He's around again, yes but at arms length. I lost a stone since October (thank you gawd) but I kept really strong. This has been going on for 11 years ffs. I can't get him out of my hair no matter how I try (song anyone).

Hence the online stuff but I didn't get any success out of that. I went out with one guy on one date and like yours he was lovely but just not me but that day I felt really lush and he was attracted to me and tried to pursue it and we still remain friendly although he knows and understands that it didn't happen for me. But go for it anyway, and there's always the emergency text to fall back on.

Incidentally, I was wondering where you'd all gone and found you over in that 'what would you do about a friend' thread.

I was really brave today and posted on the 'addicts' thread about my friend. Have a read. What do you think? It would probably be best to post on there and not here. I've never even opened that thread before until today when I needed it.

Sometimes I don't know what I'd do without you lot.

lou33 · 04/04/2009 00:33

or maybe we are odd?

Monty27withabunnyrabbit · 04/04/2009 00:34

How are you Lou?

Monty27withabunnyrabbit · 04/04/2009 00:39

Onestonetogo, sorry meant to say hello. There's Smooch too but some weirdos on there but I think they are everywhere! Funny name. Read my last post, just lost a stone. LOL

Guys do you think I should get off here and go to relationships?

must leave the wine alone

aseriouslyblondemoment · 04/04/2009 00:52

don't go monty we need you here!
and i so want to hear the full gory details of Al
i still remain unconvinced here btw,and Lou's remarks make me feel even more wary tbh!
and yes monty will check out that thread for sure tho it's long now
bear with me lol

Monty27withabunnyrabbit · 04/04/2009 00:57

The last couple of posts are mine, you don't have to read the whole thing.

Would appreciate all of your comments if you fancy it. It's fairly heavy though.

ASBM thanks for your loveliness! x

aseriouslyblondemoment · 04/04/2009 01:03

ah bless you!
you have my email addie now.
will read thru and post for sure.
is that vino still going down a treat there?

Monty27withabunnyrabbit · 04/04/2009 01:25

Hi all, when I said would appreciate all your comments, I meant all as in anyone and ASBM the wine is going down very well indeed, in fact what wine 'cos I've drunk it all now lol and couldn't do a link.

Jeremyll33 · 04/04/2009 01:30

hi there I am a bloke ands need some silliness.

aseriouslyblondemoment · 04/04/2009 01:34

aww. have read thru that monty
that's pretty difficult reading god knows what it must be like for you going thru all of that
yes it's heavy stuff indeed but thank god she has help from you and her exh
you're doing all you can there
please don't be hard on yourself you're there for her and her dcs
big hugs from me xx

aseriouslyblondemoment · 04/04/2009 01:40

oh monty behave!
and isn't your fella awaiting lol?
or is he snoring and monopolising your side of the bed?
Jeremyll33 silliness, here, on this very serious thread?
are you daring to take the p out of this bunch of yummy mummies?
and yes yummy daddy for adad of course.

Monty27withabunnyrabbit · 04/04/2009 01:42

What shall we say to Jeremy??

Yes, it's not been easy but I love chatting to you (and all of you) and will mail you hopefully tomorrow.

Now come on Jeremy. A bun fight or what?

I SAID BUN!!!!!!

aseriouslyblondemoment · 04/04/2009 01:53

oh monty thought the same thing!!
do you think that we've scared jeremy off?
come on over here if you think you're hard enough!
lol he's obv.a wuss.
typical man.

Jeremyll33 · 04/04/2009 01:55

Bun! Fnarr!

I'm a Brit SAHD down in Germany and would love some banter about that. In Germany its more trad even than in Britain. Today I may have met some guys in the same boat but I dont hold my breath.

Monty27withabunnyrabbit · 04/04/2009 02:03

HOT CROSS BUN Jeremy?

Must go to bed.

aseriouslyblondemoment · 04/04/2009 02:14

lol at monty
am offskies too
jeremy you need to spill a bit to be welcomed on here.
we're not hostile/unfriendly
but p takers can do just that and p off

ridingjoker · 04/04/2009 07:42

right jeremy. spill further.have they got any decent dating sites in germany

onestop - some of my dates are RL too. but pof is packed in my area.

asbm

monty - go on and stay as we need your expertise as you seem to have succeeded.

ninah - perhaps change of heart today.hoping things better with nm after last night phone convo.

inthemistsoftime · 04/04/2009 08:27

I am addicted to this thread, so am having my last fix before I go offline for a few days.

Best of luck to all those gals and guys who have got dates tonight.
I shall no doubt be sampling Guinness somewhere in rural Ireland, having mn withdrawal symptoms!

inthemistsoftime · 04/04/2009 08:34

welcome to the thread jeremy, we are friendly, honestly!

we don't do confrontation, we are here to give each other support.

Holly23 · 04/04/2009 08:37

Good morning, so who's got a hangover then?
RJ - We are definately the early risers on this thread!
Well I'm away all weekend!!
Anyway asbm - go with flow and have a good evening, he may look like Kelly in RL
Ninah - Hope you're getting somewhere with sorting things out with NM.
Monty - Do tell us more about your man.
Welcome to everyone who's new to this thread.
Have a good weekend everyone.

Holly23 · 04/04/2009 08:42

Have a good time inthemist. I won't be back on here until tomorrow evening unless I'm cream crackered! Its difficult to keep up to date with this thread unless you join in daily, so plenty for your to read up on when you get back.

aseriouslyblondemoment · 04/04/2009 12:08

oh enjoy inthemist
i do love ireland and esp.the irish accent think liam neeson and james nesbitt!
i used to have a huge crush on him when he was in cold feet
holly-he doesn't look like kelly in any way shape or form
but he does like the stereophonics

lou33 · 04/04/2009 12:51

well i spoke ti the thesp online last night for about 30 mins and told him if he pulled a stunt like that again he would never hear from me again

he said ok and sorry and proceeded to beahve excatly the same so i let him have it both guns and will have nothingto do with him no

he sent me a text asking me to forgive and forget

he's too much aggro, i told him he was too old for me anyway

BUT i have set up a lunch date with someone else on sunday if life doesnt get int he way

he called me last night all apologetic for doing so without warning, seemed a bit nervous

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