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where have all the fit, interesting and available men gone (part 6)

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sincitylover · 21/03/2009 12:20

thrilled to be kicking off part 6 on a sinful note lol

Blaming the vino for texting samename1 and asking him out - he text right back suggesting early this afternoon but don't think I can make it as am waiting for my brother who is coming down to help me swap washing machines and is always late bless him!

Then had a rather raunchy chat with young guy who have been in touch with for ages - trying to think of a nickname for him - very good looking - lives in your neck of the woods Lou. Think we might meet up soon.

At least resisted the urge to text exbf.

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Remotew · 02/04/2009 21:41

ASBM, you darkhorse. lol, go on spill.

ridingjoker · 02/04/2009 21:45

lol at pervy asbm .

must admit. there was ground rules to be lain before it is agreed to.

aseriouslyblondemoment · 02/04/2009 22:03

Shock Blush

lou33 · 02/04/2009 22:05

he keeps telling me what i should and shouldnt talk about

so i told him to do one

but he keeps trying to chat

i have told him to forget meeting me

lou33 · 02/04/2009 22:06

to forget about meeting me i mean

aseriouslyblondemoment · 02/04/2009 23:05

lol at lou
oh ffs what a nobber!
sounds a bit of an egotistical control freak

lou33 · 02/04/2009 23:07

thats pretty much what i said

he said what can he do to make up for his alleged folly
i said he doesnt even think he has done anything wrong so nothing really as he wouldnt mean it

plus we dont owe each other anything we havent even met

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sincitylover · 02/04/2009 23:14

hi all back from date with samemame2. Omg I dunno. Not short of convo. We got on v well BUT various alarm bells - he met someone online and they got engaged and she broke it off. He tried to pin me down to what I want/am looking for.

We did have a kiss - he said I was a bit reticent - I told him - yes that's because I was in public!!!

Oh jeez I just don't know - we did hit it off but think the real chem was missing.

Just made me yearn for exbf. Not what I wanted to happen.

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Remotew · 02/04/2009 23:22

Would you see him again?

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sincitylover · 02/04/2009 23:27

Well i said I would but don't know. he was less edgy than i expected IKYWIM

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 02/04/2009 23:29

hahaha!
yes you don't owe him anything full stop
thank goodness you didn't waste your valuable 'me time' on him

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sincitylover · 02/04/2009 23:33

he seemed old (tho he's younger than me) and
I just felt he was too keen to find out where this was going.

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sincitylover · 02/04/2009 23:35

hope I can carry this on tomorrow. Must go to bed now.

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 02/04/2009 23:58

oh jeeze just had a nosey here!
SCL???
omg dilemma time!

lou33 · 03/04/2009 00:23

i have ended up removing thesp from my fb

he changes when he drinks, i dont need that

i dont make a mistake twice

aseriouslyblondemoment · 03/04/2009 00:34

oh god what a dick!
he must really cane it if he gets into such a sorry state
have you blocked him on your phone/msn as well?

lou33 · 03/04/2009 01:15

he doesnt have msn and my phone cant block inidividual numbers, but i wont be contacting him

ridingjoker · 03/04/2009 07:21

scl - there's nothing wrong with him finding out what you want. better to find out from the start if someone is looking for a serious of shagging partners...or wether there looking to find someone who's after a relationship.i dont understand why that a bad thing he asked?

as for the engaged thing... there's as much chance of meeting someone off internet then through RL. so surely there must be people out there who met someone online and got round to getting engaged.....and even married.

oh give him one more date. sounds like you were a bit on edge.tbh.

Holly23 · 03/04/2009 08:41

Good morning,

Lou - omg fancy him telling you what you can and can't talk about! Sounds like my exh, and he's still trying to do it even now.
Don't like how some men can become quite negative and sleazy when they've had a drink (Holly shudders)unfortuntely there are too many like that.

SCL - Now you've slept on it, have you drawn any conclusions from last night's date? Were there any postives, you mentioned conversation wasn't a problem, was there anything else?

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sincitylover · 03/04/2009 12:06

Just popping in as we are running an event today.

Well upon sleeping on it - I think I will see him again. We did get on extremely well.

But if he's looking for marriage or live in then I am not really up for that.

I don't think there is anything wrong with go with flow approach as long as you both understand it. I committed 15 years to the wrong person (exh) and am in no hurry to do that again.

I find it hilarious he thinks I am shy in the physical dept!!

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 03/04/2009 12:21

SCL he obv.doesn't use MN then does he

Monty27withabunnyrabbit · 03/04/2009 15:21

Yay! Goes with my new name!!

lou33 · 03/04/2009 15:32

it's worth one more date isnt it scl?

thesp this morning hs been messaging me asking why i took him off fb, so i told him

he has been apologising but i told him i dont need that crap, given my history with exh

he said sorry again and i told him to try harder

aseriouslyblondemoment · 03/04/2009 16:31

lol at Monty!
is he digging a deeper hole here Lou?

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sincitylover · 03/04/2009 16:54

yes I am going to meet him again.

We have texted a bit today.

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