Please can someone slap some common sense into me.

[spookycharlotte121]

Make me not miss my ex anymore.....

make me stop dreaming about him. I mean we have been split for over a year and still I cant get over him..... please will someone talk some sense to me.... Im soooooo silly and think i still love him but its all just stupidness..... aggghhhh!!!

Maybe you should tell him
Sorry, I mean pull yourself together

i have no answers. Don't know your circumstances tho either. I am useless, as I am 4 yrs on and still have feelings for my exdh and miss what could have been.

Time does help tho, and you will def meet someone lovelier!!!

hi charlotte nice to see you again, as it were !!

i suggest you search the threads about him, that you have posted, his selfish behaviour, not helping with the children, the amount of children he has and does not support, the other awful things he has done to you...

you do not and should not love a man who has done those things to you

you are worth more

don;t let him back in to hurt you all over again

has he split with his GF>?

I don't know your background with your ex either, but all I can say is there must be a reason why he is your ex?