where have all the fit and interesting available men gone part 5!!

[aseriouslyblondemoment]

ok we're off!

another one not well today. At work yesterday I felt really abnormally tired.

Today I woke up and my back is really stiff and it also appears I have hayfever early.

So am off work today hoping to go back tomorrow.

Will have a read and catch up

am lucky that my older ones cna muck in with the younger ones when i am not well, but it still doent take the worry away

hope you all feel better soon

actor/photographer bloke is in constant contact, says he is nervous about meeting me still lol

morning!
yes I feel the same SCL
every bone in my body aches atm.

has this fella been out with many women?

yes ability to make cup of tea for me and look after me when ill is a must.

exh used to moan if ever I was ill and raise his eyebrows and tut!!

SCL you are not allowed to be ill end of.
exh he is allowed to be and to take himself off to bed as well

my exh used to bugger off all day leaving me with the kids when i was ill, saying he thought i could do with the peace

i dont think he is used to internet dating , asbm

yep I feel bad about work but I was worse than useless there yesterday.

that's why they're exh's
aww.bless him!
he'll get the hang of it i'm sure!
a sense of humour and being thick skinned will get him far lol.

guess i will find out on saturday

aww.i bet he'll be worried in case he gets stood up poor bloke!
i guess it can be equally scary for blokes too

lol i wont stand him up, if i haad to i wold cancel with notice but i dont leave people waiting knowing i am not going to turn up

the worst it will be is a couple of hours of tedium, after all

no i don't either it's not on
i think it will be interesting prob.
and if it's not you've lost nothing really

having been stood up, I definitely wouldn't do it to anyone else, it is such bad manners after all.

good luck lou, he sounds suitably in awe of you already, a good thing!

hope everybody else feels better.

thanks inthemist
haven't been stood up ever but have done it as a teenager
i think it's the height of bad manners and a really rotten thing to do
any more from kisses?
he wasn't inc.in my weekly fitties horrors list from FRD

his fb status says something like he is now thinking online dating could be a good thing....

that's because of you Lou

ello ello, was occuring?!!!

i am onboard, i doubt i will be able to catch up on al the goings on. an edited update perhaps?

i have not responded still to the rubish man from last week. I doubt he even has a clue why!

had a lovely evening , saw Elbow last night. sister's birthday today too.

oh cool were they good?
is he still on your case or has he taken the hint!

well... people... i'm back to thinking about having "the chat" with marvel again. just been thinking about how i dont have the time to train a fella with 2 dc. trouble is he is so clueless he will have no idea he's being dumped

policeman still in daily contact every night so far. says he's looking forward to sat...

went looking for something to wear today. why is all the stuff in the shops so appaling just now.

i want something that fits well and is funky. whats with all these huge draping material things. they dont make flatter any figure unless your a 13yo girl. and as i'm so tall anything that is dress or skirt was super super short as it's supposed to be wore with leggings.

ended up getting a wicked jacket. going to wear with black and some cobalt shoes and bag and jewellery to funk it up.

msn-ed gardener last night too briefly to keep him as back up. dont want him to think i've disappeared.he's ok. normal chat.

adad - forgot to say your profile looks fine. just get on fishing. start mailing interesting woman. and when you mail them mention something about their profile you liked and make sure you ask a question so they will respond.

good luck

nice one!
my nm has some issues with his ex, his dc have been living with him and she wants one of them to live with her when changes school. Big discussions due etc. Everyone getting stressed inc me tho it is none of my business, and I'm wondering if I really want to worry about someeone else's probs any more does that sound selfish?

it's not selfish. your still in very early days of your relationship. i wouldn't really wanting to be involved in that kinda thing unless i was living with them.

yes, well I'm trying to stay out of it, but it's kind of in the ether, he's upset and stressed and they're having a big meet up to sort it all out - has been dragging on a while but now they need to confirm school choices
comes under the heading of baggage really

RJ that's sounding nice!
I am not quite as tall as you but have real probs.with clothes esp.shoes as I have large feet!
am usually clonking about in trainers/timberlands
Ninah hmm know what you mean there,but I guess that he would feel concerned about your probs.if you were dealing with the same thing.
It's certainly not a selfish thing to not want to take any more on board than you already have,I tend to purposefully avoid it unless it's one of my close circle of friends as I know that I will start clucking and stressing,as indeed they do about me!