Brief story - exH lives 200 miles away, earns £40k a year but is always 'broke', left me with lots of debt when we separated. We have a 4 year old DD.
He's intermittent re contact, often doesn't phone when supposed to etc. When he does see her hes rubbish, forgets to feed her etc. Ive posted about these issues before.
Anyway, hes got himself a girlfriend. Last weekend (not one just gone one before) was supposed to come up and see DD for day. Told me didnt have the money for the petrol (circa £30) I said I'd lend it him. He said he didnt even have the money to get enough petrol to get to mine (circa £15).
Anyway, this weekend he tells me hes going away with his girlfriend of 2 months. Won't tell me where. Says shes paying for it (she's an upemployed single mother of a 3yr old D so I doubt that very much). I find out today they went to FLORENCE for 5 days!!
Can't afford £15 one weekend, affords 5 days in Florence the next.
Rant over. But can I kill him??!