Where have all the fit and interesting available men gone...Part 4!!!!

[aseriouslyblondemoment]

and so it goes on...

never too old to have a good nite out
told you that you should have been wearing a'fed up not hard up 'tshirt

hi Lou!

Dirty texting (I prefer the term raunchy). That's something I enjoy, though on MSN is much better. The time and conversation should go somewhere though.

Kissing someone straight after meeting them is not a good idea. There has to be some sort of mutual feeling and mutual desire, otherwise the action is more a "no" than a "yes"......if in doubt, ask.

Holly23. Seeing the man again, is that to confirm what you think or build on what you discovered?

well it better not happen again
as i don't appreciate it end of

Could you not switch your phone off?

dont see why i should really as then those i want to contact me can't and will be upset or worry about me
i will just block him
same as i do with MSN

yes defo block him

saw exbf last night wearing horrid new tan leather jacket. wanted to shout IM OVER YOU, but thought may have got some odd looks.

I can see that point regarding switching phones off.

Fortunately I don't seem to have any problem with people bothering me.
I don't have to block people either.

From a dating perspective (if I use a dating site) I keep the conversation on there till I feel I can give out the MSN contact details.

I, by nature don't contact people if I think I shouldn't be. That way I don't need to be blocked.

Can you block mobile numbers?

i have!
have spring cleaned my msn this morning!
hes been texting me just, wanting to come round and watch the match with me!
think he didnt appreciate my response so has gone quiet
dont horrid tan{shudder}leathers go with knitted ties?
have only seen a tan leather look good on one bloke actually
oh yes was Kelly lol
{asbm goes off on one again..}

yes i can and do block mobile no's
thats for those tossers pests who don't give up

I have more than one mobile phone. The number given out is a revolving number. It gets changed every few months (specific reason - not dating related - for the change). Everyone on my contact list gets the new number if they should, but people can opt out of getting the new number if they request it. There are a few select people who get the other numbers, mainly because the other numbers are for things like my laptop modem. People get the other numbers when my main phone battery goes flat.

hmm any update from Betty yet?

Thinking about MSN and blocking. I just checked. 9 people blocked in about 8 years. I don't remember blocking them. If I ask someone to stop contacting me, they generally do.

I wonder if not asking someone to stop contacting me keeps the invitation open?

depends if you're a stalker persistent

i only block someone if they have been pestering me. otherwise i just delete.

i've had same number for about 6yr now. i dont block anyone. i do get the odd random message from people. but not enought to warrant changing my number.

sent marvel a text saying had personal issues(well...not a lie, i did have issues with ex) and that i would contact through the week when things calm down. he seems to have gotten the hint. no further text or calls since i sent that.

RJ will you see Marvel again?

no - when i'm in the right frame of mind and dc free sometime this week i will be calling to let him down. as he's local i will no doubt bump into him. simply ignoring is not an option

what will you say to him?

just tell him i'm not ready for a relationship. he's text back to say i can "call to unload as he'd enjoy the chat too"

wtf.

why would i want to call and unload a whole pile of personal issues on someone i've only met 15 days ago?

evening all,

rj, I will be having a similar conversation with bob this evening, am not ready for a relationship blah blah, not looking forward to it.

i'm not looking forward to it either. but it's better than being a coward.

evening!
inthemist are you telling Bob in person?
RJ he is not taking the hint is he?
but i guess he thinks that he's being helpful with his offer