Where have all the fit and interesting available men gone...Part 4!!!!

[aseriouslyblondemoment]

and so it goes on...

ah bless,

am meeting bob for lunch next week.

neutral territory, watch this space!!!

Hi NSM!!
I guess this is the dating section of MN in a way
but i think it's a really positive thread and always makes me smile alot as it's so cheering to hear of other single parents out there with the same often comical dating stories as mine
We have all tried the internet dating thing with varying degrees of success
Eve and Ninah are two other loved up MN-ers too!
Myself,well i tried internet dating late last year and had an LDR out of that with a particularly shitty messed up guy which lasted a couple of months
I half heartedly rejoined at the beginning of last month and had 1 date with a very shy bloke who was nice but er just very shy
I have also since had five or six so called cybermen but none that i would possibly meet up with tbh
I had reached the point where i felt totally jaded with the whole thing and seriously pissed off with being stalked pestered so i have kept off the site for a while now and spring cleaned my mobile and msn!
However since then theonewhogotaway(T1WGA)has been in touch with me and we are planning to meet up hopefully next weekend child care arrangements allowing

inthemist what do you mean that Lou and i are plain talkers

ridingjoker - He does sound, maybe you are lucky that he lives so far away as he wont expect too much from you? And it will be harder for him to bump into your exp.

I worry about that tooas my exp was controlling and violent and always said if he saw me with another guy he would beat him up...

it is another advantage.

exp not so much into fighting. more stalking/pestering and making life hell for nm.

diver would simply tell him to f off and sail off on his boat. lol.pretty hard to stalk a boat

bet diver wouldn't take any crap

aseriously - is T1WGA from an internet site?

i like diver's idea, maybe i will get a boat as i know exp has been sitting outside my house...

T1WGA translates as the one that got away, not from a dating site- lol

inthemist - sounds great, so what is your hitory with this guy? should be fun, how did you get in touch again?

NSM - i have kept my whereabouts top secret as i know exp will be sitting outside. and driving by at all hrs to see who's round. chapping the door and upsetting dc as he wants in and i wont let him.

something that we were all discussing last night. there is only 2 signs. just 2 signs anywhere at all that tell you how to get to this village. it is very well hidden. and when i'm driving here from any road it is very obvious if i'm being followed. and it isn't on some maps. you see the dwelling, but for some reason it's not listed with place name. it's not tiny. there's about200 houses. it's the perfect place if your hiding from a cray stalking ex who hires PI to follow you

nsm, T1TGAW, is asbm man!

mine is called bob, after bob the builder!

we are in contact and as I have said I may have been a little hasty in dismissing him as a potential suitor!

watch this space!

crazy not cray

inthemist - is bob on site? can i have a swatch.??he has tried very hard. perhaps worth another night/day venture

bob was on POF, but has since deleted his profile?
says that online dating is not for him.

I have told him that he could be missing out on countless opportunities to meet new women, or the right women, so wont be able to show you him unfortunately.

Another bit of good news - ridingjoker having a good (and close) time. Well done and lets hope it lasts.

I saw that you think the photo I have is of me in a dress. I wouldn't wear a dress to the grave and if someone tried to put one on me while I was dead, that's a good reason to rise from the dead and get rid of the dress.

I hardly ever drink, so the photo isn't of me doing something silly while drinking or drunk. If I were to drink - I am bad news because I tend to not stop and have a mind of my own (which I don't think is unique to me).

The photo of me looks ok, it's the other people in the photo that shouldn't be seen.

ridingjoker - i want to move to your village

inthemist - i hope it goes wells this time...

ok ladies so I have replied to the guys text from last night and waiting to see if he replies. I feel like he is trying to play it cool and wait a few hours before replying but that just means that conversation never follows properly...

inthemist
is Bob still keen after you blew him out?

nsm, its ok to play it cool in the beginning, but if its meant to happen it will, and cool wont enter into it.! hang in there.

hi N1, back with us then? we are still waiting for that photo!!!!

NI where are you thinking of putting the photo, on here or sending in privately? I know what you look like but was just wondering.

Welcome to newlysinglemummy. You can try POF which is a free site, varying degrees of success. I met someone from there once, fell for him, he promised me the earth said he's fallen in love with me but at the first sign of a problem, i.e teen daughter, he couldnt handle it. You are young so I guess it's quite easy to find single guys your age so keep on going out.

Inthemidst, glad you are giving Bob another chance, I thought you had been hasty there.

NSM take your time to reply to his text too as hes obv.a text player

NSM - maybe he's not waiting. just busy. why not reply as soon as he does at the start.

saying that if the text banter is witty and well thought it can sometimes take a while for a response. i prefer a well thought out response when the other person has time. than a short 2 word response when they are harassed.

n1 - hello. go on. send us the photo to someone and we'll just share it among us girls on here?? we wont laugh.....much

I do have to say N1, its very early for you to be with us! go on send that photo!

RJ lol
have tried to email you btw, bear with me having probs.with it tonite