why cant i leave the kids with their father, and just leave?

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good reasons please. not just that i am the mother, and moms always stick with their kids.

i am seeing a counsellor through tthe gp. not on ads, and dont want to be, not anymore.
he has now been offered a job in america, which he is going to take. he has no 'place' here. just been going form b&b to other temporary place. so no possibility of packing them all off, as he has no where to have them.

i wont leave teh kids. but i just want him to disappear into a black hole somewehere....

Do you have any family around to have the kids for a couple of days to give you a break?

no

If your anywhere within 30miles of BA6 Id look after them for you for a week giving you time to go off and clear your head. Im a carer, was student midwife, mum of 3+5yr old boys and fully CRB checked x hugs