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Those lone parents lone for fit and interesting men, ie asbm, scl, slm, N1 inthemist and anyone else who is going through the same thing!!!!

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inthemistsoftime · 11/02/2009 19:45

Hi guys, have had rather too much to drink and have txted the "friend" just so I can have company for next week when the kids are skiing with their dad, am I out of order?

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inthemistsoftime · 11/02/2009 19:46

sorry tittle should have said elm and not slm!

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 11/02/2009 19:53

sure that elmo won't mind!
no you're not out of order if that's what you want

fattiemumma · 11/02/2009 19:53

i have no idea. but if your asking if its ok to get someone over for some no strings sex then of course its not wrong/ so long as you both know where you stand and your not risking getting hurt then go for it.

enjoy

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inthemistsoftime · 11/02/2009 19:59

why thank you ladies, lets hope he txts back!

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N1 · 11/02/2009 20:33

I am not out on a date on Saturday, though I am in the middle of going from one placeto another.

My Saturday should be spent reading a court file, analising a psychological report, asking a parent for background of their case and then I should try to plot an idea for the parent.

Sometime between Saturday and Sunday, I should be going from Staffordshire to Hampshire....all being well and if I don't get lost on public transport.

Number swaping is a very good idea.

aseriouslyblondemoment · 11/02/2009 20:51

think you should be on the other thread N1!
its updated to pt 2 now

aseriouslyblondemoment · 11/02/2009 20:52

keep up lol!

lou33 · 11/02/2009 20:56

not out of order no

just make sure you have a bloody good time

HOLLY23 · 11/02/2009 20:57

I'm going to watch a film with my cousin this Saturday, it's that one with Jennifer Aniston "He's not that into you" very apt! (for me anyway) Deffo no cards for me this year!
ITMOT - Go ahead and enjoy yourself, hope he replies soon for you!

elmoandella · 11/02/2009 21:00

em..... does he think he's coming as a friend? for some action between sheets if you get bored??

has he ever confessed he still has feelings for you in a romantic sense since you decided to be "friends"?

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inthemistsoftime · 11/02/2009 21:01

N1, I am a bit worried about you, you sound very serious what makes you laugh?

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lou33 · 11/02/2009 21:03

can someone link me to part two please?

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inthemistsoftime · 11/02/2009 21:03

no we are just friends with benefits!

however I quite like him, but would never let him know as I am not his normal type.

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HOLLY23 · 11/02/2009 21:05

What do you mesn - what is his normal type? he's obviously attracted to you.

aseriouslyblondemoment · 11/02/2009 21:05

me lol!

HOLLY23 · 11/02/2009 21:06

sorry typo should read "mean"

elmoandella · 11/02/2009 21:07

as long as he's aware of the benifits you will be sharing then go for it. as long as there's not feelings on either side that go a bit deeper...otherwise someone will end up hurt

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inthemistsoftime · 11/02/2009 21:07

yeah sort of, but I didn't follow the 3 date rule!

I am ok as a sh** buddy but not for a real relationship!

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aseriouslyblondemoment · 11/02/2009 21:08

Lou i started pt2 as MN HQ wouldnt let me post again
its on there somewhere

HOLLY23 · 11/02/2009 21:08

is that your assumption or has he indicated that? is he single as well?

lou33 · 11/02/2009 21:08

fwb can work well for a while, but i am now bored of that so in retirement until i find something more suitable for my frame of mind

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inthemistsoftime · 11/02/2009 21:09

neither of us have partners, he is still not over his ex and now devotes his time to his two children and I would always be 2nd best.

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elmoandella · 11/02/2009 21:12

why would you want to be more than 2nd best??putting his kids first is an admirable quality.

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inthemistsoftime · 11/02/2009 21:13

friend has just sent txt, am very excited!!!!!!

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elmoandella · 11/02/2009 21:15

the same "friend"...what does it say?