x is trying to find out where new house is ...

[mrsmortenharket]

i find this out today from dd when we were all 3 of us sat in cafe being civil after having taken her to docs.

Sorry not much info here, can you elaborate? who are all 3 of you? what did dd actually say?

hi vt!
sorry. me, dd, and her t**t of a person dad.

she said "daddy has been trying to see you new house". (when daddy was fetching her medicine, she just said it, completely unprompted.)

is there a reason why he doesn't know your adress?

what did you say to him?

she has chicken pox
the doc has said not to bathe her just use flannels, i would have thought that she could have cool baths to calm the itchiness surely?

If you are on good enough terms to be taking her to docs together why doesn't he know where you live?

baths with oats in a sock far better, flannel would rub and irritate spots

we are not especially on good terms, i had phoned docs for an appt for dd and as she was with ehr dad, he said that he would take her. i was worried and knew something was up so i went too. which he was ok with.

x was arrested for harrassment injune of last year, and i know that if he knew where i lived then he would be round there evry bloody time he thought i was seeing someone and i need that space for my sanity, not wondering if he is lurking somewhere every few minutes. if you have been in the same situtaiton then you will understnad my decision. i am not stopping access as some think, i am merely stopping him from knowing where i live.
fwiw he knwos where i live now, it used to be the fmaily hosue (not home - too long a story to gointo here) and he has been seen by myself and my friends trying to catch me out. btw, we split for good nearly 18mths ago.