Just popping in to say hi

[CrackerNut]

Am finding it hard not being able to post here as normal and just wanted to say Hi.

That is of course if anyone can figure out who I am ? Otherwise you will all be reading this thinking 'right, but who the hell are you'.

If you do know though, don't state my previous name/s please.

I think so. Was wondering about you the other day.

I dont know who you are but 'Hi' anyway.

Hello!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Just try to remember one day at a time, this too will pass and you can have nothing more to do with him once your youngest is old enough IYSWIM.

Didn't you get a new job, how's it going?

Hi

Not really liking the new mn format but at least it might be useful for stopping ex's lurking as it seems harder to navigate to me now.

I had to give the job up. It is no secret that I hated it, but that wasn't the reason. Basically the idea of me and my mum working shifts around each other went tits up straight away as they put me on 3 full weekends in a row and my mum works every weekend.

I did speak to them about it but they didn't budge so I handed in my notice. They did suggest I did bank shifts instead but I can't because of benefits.

but that's because we're addicts and were so used to navigating around. He may get bored of trying to find you on here and give up.

Why don't you set up a FB page and put loads of rubbish on it that is so OTT he knows it's a wind up - will give him something to obsess about?

thats a bugger on the job, is there anything else you could go for?

Oh he has already gone ape because I said I didn't want him to request me as a friend on FB.

I am pretty saure he has looked on here because he mentioned it a few days after he got his laptop, but thb i think he probably got fed up of looking once he didn't find anything that was obviously about mne or him.

I am back job hunting and have enquired about a few things but nothing any good as yet.

I did manage to secure a placement at a school with a view to doing my nvq in childcare but the course was cancelled due to lack of interest.

Why would you want your ex on your FB??? He's odd.

Perhaps he will find someone else eventually.

Years ago were you wrongly accused of benefit fraud or am I mixing you up with someone else? I only wanted to know that you got it sorted out okay and that you managed not to kill the person who reported you for being so evil!

Hi
Shame about the shifts. I hope something more suitable turns up for you.

Just a thought - post in chat as the threads are deleted after 60 ?days .

The benefit fraud thing was me yes. In the end I was cautioned for letting him stay for 1 night. I did get legal advice with the intention of taking it to court but I couldn't deal with the stress so after making sure that I got it in writing that the cautionn wouldn't effect my chances of getting any job in the future I signed the caution.

I still don't know who it was that wrote to the benefits people. I still think it was probably xp's mum but have no proof of that.

I have no idea why xp thinks he should be allowed as my friend on FB. I think he is unhinged.

Good point Iota.

I am hoping he won't look again if he has already looked and not found me.

Right, time to wash up i think, then a nice cuppa whilst I watch You've Been Framed lol.

LOL!!! At least you didn't your ex MIL (even though she deserved it)

Washing up? I haven't had my dinner yet

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Hi Aimsmum

I was upset about the job because even though i wasn't overly keen on it, even I thought it would last longer than that. My mum was furious that they weren't a bit more felxible with my hours. I even found 2 people willing to swap a couple of shifts with me and they still said no.

Just trying to resort my benefits out which is turning into a nightmare. I did a rapid reclim of IS and 2 weeks later still haven't heard a thing from them. Turns out they had sent it to Incapacity benefit desicion maker

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