From the BBC website on Barack Obama the new inspirational President of the United States of America
"But where did "the juice" come from? How did this man of mixed-race heritage, once racked by insecurity about his place in the world, develop the confidence we see today?
How can someone who's suffered two broken homes be as grounded and secure as he is? The answer lies in the love of a doting mother and the failures of an absent father"
See single parents (I am including single dads here) can inspire our children to be whatever they want to be.
Don't give up!