It's christmas eve...so obviously XP has f*cked up again...it's like deja vu of last year without the suicide!!

[Aimsmum]

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Oh god Aimsmum, what a mess. Does your dd know yet ??

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Is he still coming to see her on xmas day though ??

I remember your thread from last year. He really is a very selfish man.

I hope you and your dd have a nice xmas despite his actions.

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Oh, aims! So sorry to read he's being a twonk again! I remeber last year's post.

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Can you arrange for your dd to see the ex in-laws in future and just totally bypass him?

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It doesn't have to be wonderfully friendly, just a phone call/brief letter "dd would love to see you, how would you feel about be dropping her off and coming to collect her". You don't have to go in or have anything else to do with them apart from arrange visits? Do they live locally?

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Hopefully if you did they would really appreciate it especially now they realise what their son is like. If your dd loves them & enjoys seeing them do it for her sake.