I've been single for over 2 years now, tried internet dating, wasn't sure I was ready for it, even recently, and all the blokes on it (more than one site) were all wrong so I've kind of given up on that.. the thing is I'm still getting hassle from ex, saying he still loves me etc. and he wants loads more contact with 2 yo DD when I'm still worried about him drinking around her- I just can't see an end to his pestering, and much as I'd love to start seeing other people, I'm liable to burden them with this ongoing problem. Can I do this or should I hold out to see if ex does cool it?