They had already been to see the children at school before they even came to see me at home, which I am totally about.
She just launched into some stuff that DD2 had said, and now we have 2 conflicting stories. DD2 also told them about the babysitting that DD1 does for her, and used the words 'home alone', which makes it sound like it's all day every day. When in essence, it's only a couple of hours a week. And she told them that mummy smacks her? WTF
DD2 is a notorious thumbsucker and I tap her hand to make her get her fingers out of her mouth, FGS, it's just a bloody tap.
Then came all the usual spiel about marking them and leaving bruises, which I certainly have never done.
The SW then rang exh at my home and I could hear him down the phone 'what''s it got to do with me? Why am I being involved in this?'. The SW asked him about the maintenance he was paying us and he told a completely different story to what I told the SW, as he'd lied about access and contact to save himself some shekels.
It just makes me look like such a damn mug with the lies exh told and the conflicting stories.
Exh was hammering on my front door last night, telling me I'd ballsed up big time. Saying that he cannot afford it. £17 a week for 2 kids whom he sees for 3 hrs a week. He has 2 cars and a taxi and is off to Sri Lanka next month.
I overheard him telling DD1 to lie about the amount of contact he has with them both, to get him off the hook.
It's all such a damn mess now and I wish that I'd never bloody said anything at all. They'll never leave me alone now will they?