what an IDIOT!!! (same as untitled)

[charlotte121]

Ex p has really done it this time. He was late to collect ds today... turned out that was because he had spent the night in a police cell for having a fight in town last night! What an idiot...why cant he just walk away from these things... does he not watch the news? Does it not register in his head that people are pulling knives out of their pockets in similar situations??? He is a useless dad at the best of times but hes even more useless 6ft under!
Anyway i got told to mind my own business for expressing this opinion!

When he left I kept getting this whiff of something... at first I thought it was cheep aftershave but I recognised the smell and realised it was fucking whisky. He has taken my precious son out when he stinks of booze so is probibly over the limit! Im worried now... if he crashes with my baby in the car I will never forgive him! Have tried ringing his mobile but he is ignoring my calls.

I really do not think he is a capable father... and he wonders why I wont let him take dd out. Im seriously thinking about making him have contact at my flat. I dont trust him! Aghhhhh im so angry. Why didnt i recognise what the smell was sooner and stop him taking ds out. I will never forgive myself if something happens!!!

He does sound rubbish
Don't worry about the whisky smell, I used to drink it as a student and would reek of it for a whole day afterwards (even if had only had one), it is pungent stuff
Try not to worry, but I am sure you would have a v good case for access being purely at your place now

could you use a contact centre?

He is going to go mad if I try any of this stuff tho. Perhaps i'll just put myself out my missery and kill him... bury him under the patio.... oh no even better. I'll tie him up and give him to the foxes in my garden.

I hate the guy. he is just soooooooooo anoying. Im going to write this in my sad pathetic little log and speak to my solicator on monday... see what she says. He is a terrible father... Im even considering buying a breathalizer from ebay and making him breath into it before he takes ds out.

Have also spent a lot of time pondering the idea of moving to Autralia... kids would have a much better quality of life there and we would escape from him! But again Im scared of how he'll react if i do this.

if you believe he is drink driving with your son in the car call the police. i wouldnt risk it.

contact centre is a lovely idea but nigh on impossible to sort out, even if the xp agrees. its not that easy to shut a dad out of their kids lives.