I have managed to get myself a new job!! Im moving up orth from very expensive Surrey to be an attendance officer its full time term time only but Ill have my parents on hand to do drop off and pick up and all the school holiday s off and the chance of a real career again. Im leaving the area as my shithead of an expartner willnot negotiate on the share ofequity despite having over 50K of declared savings and a salary of £150k per yr he is a twat and Im finally getting out of the situation and my dd has a lovely new school to go to starting in sep. 3 weeks to go and then we are gone and despite the shit syaing e will see her every other w/e Iknow he wont keep it up and so we will be well shut. DD hates his guts and wont see or speak to him so we will be well shut