Hi, I've been single for about two years now, just focussed on dc etc after lousy relationship. Sometimes I think it would be nice to have a man around but on the other hand I'm terrified - been so long. I don't think I want a serious relationship, just a kind of friendly thing - but I get so little free time I don't want to waste it on flirtations that get out of hand etc. I've heard match dot com is good. Any advice? I'm not unhappy with life the way it is ...