thick as shit

[piratecat]

sent texy to ex dh.
me
'dd, has asked to see you, if poss this weekend'

him

'I can only come for tea time saturday'

me

'we are over friends, maybe you could think of another time?'

no reply

rings me last night

'does dd want to speak to me'

me

'no you know she's not keen on the phone, did you think of anything?'

him

'what do you mean'

'the text about...'

(pissed off) 'what are you talking about'

then repeats the above to me abotu our communication, minus the bit about maybe you can think of something else.

then he says

'I can't see her, this weekend'

me

'ok, well you said you wuold like to see her before we go away'

him annoyed

'i don't know when i can'

puts phone down.

he's a wanker, obv

nice of him to make the effort

(last sentence was sarcastic BTW!)

yep thick as shit.

maybe it's pre wedding nerves. no thats just another excuse. I must stop doing excuses.

I think some men play thick when they don't want to answer a question direct, my ex used to do this to buy himself time to think of a quick excuse, I too used to put the phone down on him cause I knew it would wind him up

maybe tinkerbell. He put the phone down in this case tho.

I am going away whislt the wedding happens, must admit I am pretty cut up about it. I do wonder why, because when i speak to him I think 'god you are one ugly person these days'

its not just men that do it - i dont contact my ex at all but she does it to the kids all the time. is just how some people are - i must attract the weird ones

hey piratey - people never look so good when you see their true colours - must be the rose tinted goggles you were wearing.

def was wearing them, but it's funnyhow you just don't realsie.

it's like they change so much and you don't, but you go along with it. it is very subtle.

I ache for the old him, the old friend i had in him. Yet it is not him anymore.

single dad, i can never understand how women do this, prob well naive of me. My dd's best friend in school's mother is the same as your ex, and I just cannot understand.

I think you are hurting piratecat because it will be final between you, what you need to do is speak to him every day so he continues to prove to you that he is indeed a pleb

sdo3 it might have been beer goggles she was wearing all this time and now she has sobered up, lol

good one tinkerbel.