So if you had sent a message to someone on a dating site 2 weeks ago, and had no reply...............................

[mybrainaches]

Would it look desperate to send another message?[blush}

yes

I have never used a dating site, but I probably wouldn't send another message - I would move onto someone else!

bugger

Step away from the computer, until the moment passes.

Have you already done it?!

No I have'nt, shame, he seemed nice.

Turn this on its head, if you got a message and you did not want to reply to it, would you feel stalked if three weeks later they sent you a nudge ??

I would.

Yes, leave it. You never know, he might be on holiday or something, and will reply later! Don't send another though - you have done your bit - the ball is in his court now.

I suppose

But but but, maybe he's on holiday, or or his internet connections down

Ok Ok, will hunt for a better fish.

if its on POF go into your sent message folder and it will tell you if he has read it or not

I dont know what POF is, so it cant be

leave it, no reply after so long means you are not their type

plenty more men to peruse

yes

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depends which dating site it is. If his subscription ended then he wouldnt have been able to read or reply to your message. He might resubscribe soon

If it's a dating site that you have to pay to read your mail he might not have paid yet or this month for some reason so might not e able to read your mail. Also I think some let you read the mail but only let you reply if you are a paid up member. That might be why you haven't got a reply. If it is the case then he can't be that serious in his search or has found someone or given up.

Gilly

Yes you do have to pay to read private messages, and I sent a private message, rather than a free one. d'oh.

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I wont, would be far to embarressed.

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sorry POF is plentyoffish.com

FFS let him go. Maybe he's met his dream woman already. Maybe his mates put his name on the site for a windup and he's still trying to explain it to his DW. Maybe he's a disgusting smelly pigface who puts up pics of a male model to see how many responses he can get.
Whatever the reason, He's Not That Into You, so move on and find another bloke to stalk try out.