Feeling anxious tonight going forward, need advice please ?

[VenusJupiter]

Hi Everyone,

Maybe you are all sleeping? I'm struggling tonight about my big move. Have posted previously that I am transitioning to a new place as I'm leaving my narcissistic stbx ( father of DD). It's unbearable living with him. I'm so down, but can't give him ammunition. Anyway.. I'm currently cleaning the new place as it's just not clean enough for me. I wondered if when health visitor comes over or any other organisations that are helping us will use anything against me because this unpacking process is gonna be difficult with a 3 month old. Am I being silly?

Honestly, you’ll be fine - I was extremely paranoid about this and often could barely sleep just at the thought of a visit. I kept (and still keep) my place very clean, but at the time the actual place itself just wasn’t very good - run down, landlord who didn’t really bother, I barely had any furniture…

No one ever made a nasty comment or batted an eye.

Oh my god thank you for the reassurance because I have been so worried about this. I guess if you look like you are trying and baby is immaculate etc then that is all that matters. I just don't want my ex using anything against me.

BTW are you from Spain or Portugal? My mum was caught up in the power cut.

Thanks again.